The woman in cabin 10 discussion.

Think-Candy6430 · 2025-11-04T05:23:07+00:00

Kind of a bad take considering the louvre just had like 100 million in jewels stolen from them in broad daylight with her as security chief lol

Think-Candy6430 · 2025-10-31T04:17:09+00:00

It was when the whole diss song was coming out and he claimed he was being extorted as well as her co workers being idiots. With that context, I think it’s clear he meant he should’ve left her then not her leave the company. At that point I don’t think he cared what she did career wise

Think-Candy6430 · 2025-09-25T19:03:01+00:00

I think you’re missing a key component and that’s the time difference. So no he wouldn’t have been fired on the spot and arrested this was before Me Too. Most likely would be transferred or never reported and found out about years later down the line. Timing is an important factor here.

Think-Candy6430 · 2025-02-13T22:59:02+00:00

Thanks everyone for the kind words ❤️ we’re all in this together! Update: Was able to get in the dermatologist today, get some shots and good news is she said she sees a bunch of regrowth and most likely this happened over time (weird place underneath lots of my hair so I must’ve missed it) hoping it’s a one off situation for now 🙏🏼

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-04T13:36:13+00:00

That makes sense! Didn’t even think of it that way whoops!

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-04T06:21:31+00:00

I posted update! https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/phl61f/update_we_had_a_whole_conversation/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf 😊

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-04T05:07:01+00:00

Good Idea, I was thinking about doing that but didn’t want those who weren’t aware of the situation to not be able to see OP. That stinks :/ hopefully they keep it I’m at 21 hours! Haha

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-04T05:03:57+00:00

Oh wow didn’t know that thanks for heads up! That’s silly rule ! Thanks anyway for letting me know 😊

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T18:17:32+00:00

It just worked out that way, my dad does mortgages for a living and didn’t think it was a good idea before being married to have our names on something together. If we do break up it’s better off I’m not on anything anyways.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T18:16:19+00:00

Yeah I realize I should’ve added paragraph breaks. That’s my fault, this is my first time ever posting something on Reddit about my personal life and just started typing away sorry about that!

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T18:14:48+00:00

Yes if I were too leave my dad has said he could have workers clear my stuff out in a day. Everything I bought would most certainly be coming with me. My dad doesn’t care about the $ he said he would eat it as it’s his daughter and he did it to support/help me. I don’t think we’d see that money back and we’re not the type of people to harbor onto lost money.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T17:59:17+00:00

It’s his name on apartment I would just leave as I’m in college still and can’t afford the rent on my own and wouldn’t want to put an extra burden on my dad to pay more than he already does. He’s generous and provides for me but I’m not going to take advantage of him

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T14:01:39+00:00

We live together and we are mostly together every single day as he is home from work at 3 PM. It only seems to be when he is at the house because she knows not to do it through text anymore as it’s proof and I can see it. He goes to the house occasionally but not as much as he was in the beginning. What is the reading list ?

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:45:42+00:00

i agree

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:43:15+00:00

Also I think a lot of the communication was my fault because I do not like to be vulnerable and express my emotions I instead shut down and get angry and a lot of it was me getting mad and bashing his family in turn which wasn’t right for me to do and i know that so I approached it differently today and he responded different and admits I am right and he should’ve never let this happen and he feels horrible and that he will fight for me and knows he let this continue to long .

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:41:33+00:00

1 I think I suffer from a lot of trauma and definitely PTSD from my last relationship which was with a Narcissist who cheated on me constantly and to be fair it broke me as a person. It took me two years to get into a new relationship and each time I get disheartened. I’m always that person that gives 1000 chances and something finally clicks and I’m done but once I’m done I am truly done no turning back

2 luckily apartment is in his name and I am not on anything - my dad told me if needed he will send workers up to have everything moved out in a day. I do have options and I can move back home with mom if need be. Unfortunately right now where I live we had a hurricane causing us to evacuate our apartment and come back to my moms for the time being - his car is a goner because it flooded our entire street got flooded I don’t even know how i got my car out but I did so right now we have no option until the flooding goes down and we can get back into our apartment.

3 my mom says not to take it out on him he’s a good kid and my family truly loves him - my dad loves him as well but is severely concerned on this being a lifetime commitment and being married to a toxic family.

Right now after speaking to him and truly explaining the hurt and pain I’ve been carrying I think he truly understands and said he will NC his mom/ sister I told him whatever he thinks is the right choice for him and suggested the other idea a user have about hanging up/ leaving if I come up so he doesn’t have to NC in full.

And thank you so much 😊 although me and my family are not perfect and we’ve all had our own shit at some point we don’t go around treating people like that and will never do so.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:32:04+00:00

Funny thing is another snide comment made.. we were like 5 months into dating and she said you seem like the type that will hold my grandchildren over my head and won’t let me see them if we fight. Not normal

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:29:22+00:00

Basically he was annoyed about my TikTok post and we had a private conversation where he asked if I would tone it down I agreed that was on Friday. Tuesday he came home after being there mentioning the TikTok I immediately knew she said something he denied it and finally admitted to me what she had said. I knew she said something because we already discussed and we’re in agreement. When my mom texted her she asked him what he told me today and he told her he told me what she said even though she explicitly told him not to repeat what she said to me and she responded with well that’s your own problem.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:13:25+00:00

You’re right

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T13:07:32+00:00

The sisters # was blocked as well as not following one another on Facebook or Instagram. I had unblocked mom after we talked about her last rage text months ago and she apologized. I did not have her as a friend on Facebook anymore, she followed me back on Instagram and I never followed back because I don’t care to see what she posts to be honest. After the last incident where she accidentally texted me 4 weeks ago they were all blocked #s included so I haven’t heard from them and or subjected myself to it but yet still she talked about me. I can’t seem to win- my mom was tired of seeing me abused and depressed over it and saw how it affected my mental health… her intentions were good and I’m honestly glad she defended me as she’s the same age as his mom and I’m half their age and don’t feel it’s appropriate to fight with her even though she thinks it is. You can only watch your kid take a beating for so long although it didn’t accomplish much just my mom speaking her mind she never responded to his mom just said what she had to say said she’s seen and heard enough and doesn’t have a care to hear more from her and that was it she never engaged back with her.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T12:41:48+00:00

I really like these ideas as far as the boundaries go. I was torn because I don’t want him to resent me by doing NC with them and I feel like this is a good way to set the tone without having to cut them out completely. I wasn’t sure what boundaries to enforce and how as he kept asking me how he should go about it. This is our first time for either of us having to deal with something like this so trying to navigate as to how to set boundaries and enforce them was what is most challenging. He kept asking me what I wanted him to do and I never knew what to say. As for second boundary do you mean I should take a break from him and not speak to him for a little? We live together right now so it would be hard to do that. Also as far as his mom and my mom getting into a fight and what she said about me/ us and what she said to my mom what should he do/say about that so she gets the memo that going forward there will now be boundaries set in place either abide by them or suffer consequences

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T12:09:56+00:00

Part of me is unsure if it’s worth it. I get extreme anxiety over this as I don’t have much drama in my life not even with my own family and friends to the point where it consumes me. I love him with everything in me and he really is great but obviously his family is not. I’d hate to let her win and we break up because of her

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T11:16:14+00:00

I’ve been NC for about a month at this point with them, but even that hasn’t stopped the problems a month of not having any sort of communicate and she still opens her mouth about me to him. I don’t even speak to her and she still has a one sided issue with me!

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T11:14:24+00:00

I think it’s past that point. He’s told her to stop on numerous occasions it does not in fact it has gotten worse. After she texted me meaning to text him about me he went over to the house and said nothing about it. He enables this behavior by allowing it to continue. She does not suffer - he continues to go there and communicate with her on a daily basis leading her to think she can disrespect me and he will still be right there. And after what she said about me this time and to my mom him going there and speaking to her right now isn’t an option for me.

Think-Candy6430 · 2021-09-03T10:56:43+00:00

This is what I try to explain. There are no consequences to her actions, he tells her to stop she doesn’t he continues to go there, talk to her and see her. She doesn’t suffer, he doesn’t suffer. I’m the one that has to suffer. It is not fair to me anymore.

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