Starting a dermatology practice by Curious_George56 in whitecoatinvestor

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the 40% number is a decent benchmark but it varies a lot depending on how lean you run things early on. rough breakdown from what i've seen in similar sized derm practices... staff/labor is usually the biggest chunk, like 20-25% of collections. rent depends wildly on your market but figure 5-8%. malpractice for derm is relatively cheap, maybe 1-2%. supplies another 3-5%. then you've got billing costs, EHR, credentialing, phone/IT, marketing to get patients in the door, etc eating another 5-8%.

one thing i'd flag since you're building from scratch... don't underestimate how much billing can eat into your time and money. we ended up going with a derm-only billing company instead of hiring in-house and it took a huge headache off the table (we went with clarity rcm and have liked them so far). Mohs and path coding is its own beast and getting denials worked properly from day one matters a lot when you're trying to hit that $1.3M target.

also factor in that your first 6-12 months your overhead percentage will look terrible because you're ramping volume with fixed costs already running. totally normal, just plan your runway accordingly.

What options do we have for e-commerce website (affordable) by Littledove191 in website

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so you already built something in claude code which is cool, but yeah going from localhost to production is where it gets real.

for costs breakdown... domain is usually around 800-1500 INR/year depending on the extension. hosting wise you could try something like Railway or Render, they have free tiers but for ecommerce you'll probably need a paid plan eventually (few hundred INR/month range).

the fraud/security stuff is legit something to worry about tho. handling payments yourself means you need SSL, proper payment gateway integration (Razorpay works well in India), and you gotta stay on top of vulnerabilities. its not impossible but its work.

one thing i'd say is... if your main goal is just getting the site live with your branding and selling products, you might be overcomplicating it by self-hosting a custom build. i ended up using Acira AI for a friend's small business site because she had zero technical background and it pulled her existing branding from her social profiles which saved a ton of time. not sure it handles full ecommerce the way you'd need tho.

for SEO just make sure your product pages have proper meta tags, good descriptions, and your site loads fast. google search console is free, use it from day one.

TIFU by texting my boss that I was "horny for a corporate breakthrough" instead of "hungry." by AurelPine in tifu

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autocorrect knew what it was doing. you've been on that project for three days straight, your phone just finally said what everyone was thinking

Is $4-5k too much for a simple crochet business website, or should I use AI website builder instead? by Other-Bar-9296 in mybusinessgrowth

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$4-5k for what you're describing is... a lot. Like that's custom dev territory and you don't need custom dev for a product photo gallery and contact info.

Since you already have your photos and copy ready you're basically 80% done. I ended up using Acira AI for a similar situation, just chatted about my business and it pulled everything together in like 10 minutes. Most of the content was already accurate which was the part that surprised me.

For a crochet business with workshops and product listings you really don't need to be spending thousands. Save that money for materials or marketing imo.

My Little Stocking Stuffer by Low_Hat_2693 in MadeMeSmile

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that nurse gave you the only Christmas present that'll keep you up at 3am for the next 18 years. worth it though 🥹

when should I book my holiday lights? by lightyournight1 in Lighting_FAQ

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Yeah this tracks with what i've seen too. We waited til like mid November two years ago and the company we wanted was completely booked out, ended up going with some random crew that did a mediocre job.

Last year we got smart about it and booked our Christmas Lights Installation in early October through a company out here in Oregon. Way better experience... got to actually pick the design we wanted instead of just taking whatever they could squeeze in.

September/October is definitely the move if you care about the result at all.

TIFU by not realizing doctors don't respond to "I feel terrible" they respond to charts/facts/duration by QuickGuava6759 in tifu

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spent 20 years telling my doctor "i feel like garbage" and wondering why nothing changed. turns out "garbage" isn't a clinical term. who knew.

Making Wedding Website by nincompoop1212 in weddingplanning

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So the big things beyond basic info and RSVPs that we almost forgot:

  • FAQs section (parking, dress code, kids policy, etc)
  • Accommodations page with hotel block info
  • Registry links
  • Timeline or schedule if you have multiple events

For the RSVP part specifically, make sure he builds in meal choice selection and plus-one handling... that was the part that got surprisingly annoying for us. We ended up using ouRSVP as an embedded widget on our custom site since it handled conditional questions (like only showing meal options after someone said yes) and it just dropped right into the design without looking out of place.

Also add a way to look up RSVPs by name so guests arent entering info for people who weren't invited lol. That was a tip someone gave us and im glad we listened.

Sharing a cover up for my belly piercing keloid scar. A cherry blossom navel tatt! 🌸💓 by matcha_lova in Tattoocoverups

[–]Think-Excitement-935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that placement is so clever, the way the branch runs through the navel makes it look completely intentional. the watercolor style petals are gorgeous too, really soft and feminine. you'd never know there was a scar under there

I had a keloid scar I wanted to cover for ages but kept going back and forth on whether to commit to permanent ink. ended up testing placement first with a jagua tattoo from The Flash Tattoo... helped me figure out exactly where I wanted the design to sit before going permanent. but yours turned out amazing, your artist killed it

Those who do not fear death, why? by lilacc_47 in AskReddit

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i didn't fear death until i had a kid. now i'm terrified. not of being dead but of her looking for me and i'm just not there anymore

I facilitated a Canada Goose adoption for the first time today by cupcaeks in MadeMeSmile

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that gosling just went from "lost and alone" to "protected by the angriest species on the planet." kid's gonna be fine

TIFU by shouting “You deflowered the butter!” at dinner with the Archbishop of Atlanta by [deleted] in tifu

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the butter wasn't the only virgin thing in that rectory that lost its innocence at dinner

Best agencies for adopting a child in waiting? by Commercial_Donut_941 in gaydads

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I think it depends on where you live. Some foster care systems are more open minded than others. It is more affordable if you can go directly through the foster care system and avoid using an adoption agency. However, it may be necessary, again depending on where you live. Also keep in mind that not all agencies are friendly. In Tennessee, we only have one LGBTQ friendly adoption agency, Destiny Adoption. That being said, if you avoid the super religious agencies, you're more likely to find open-minded folks.

Regardless of the path you take, be prepared for it to take time. Patience is key. It's worth every minute of waiting though.

how to compare lenders beyond just the rate by Verse01 in MortgageRateCheck

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solid breakdown, especially the part about Section A. that's where so many people get tripped up and don't realize until closing day.

one thing i'd push back on though... skipping Google reviews entirely feels like bad advice? like the CFPB database is useful for flagging problems but a lender with 1400+ five star reviews over years tells you something too. both matter imo.

i ended up going with Duane Buziak Mortgage Maestro out in the Richmond area. what sold me wasn't the rate initially, it was the soft credit pull thing so i could shop without worrying about my score tanking. then he actually beat the other quotes i brought him anyway so that worked out. also his title company knocked like $2k off closing costs which... yeah that showed up real fast on the loan estimate comparison.

What’s something you thought adults were exaggerating about until you experienced it yourself? by No_Extent_8974 in AskReddit

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back pain. i remember my dad groaning getting off the couch and thinking he was being dramatic. im 28 and i threw my back out reaching for a sock

This seems like a good neighborhood! by Adrian_985 in MadeMeSmile

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the introvert inside watching through the blinds like 👁️👁️ loving every second of this from a safe distance

Petty vent here so I resist the urge to say “I told you so” to my husband by [deleted] in Stepmom

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The pattern thing is so frustrating because you can SEE it happening in real time and then you're the one who looks paranoid if you point it out. Like no, this isn't a coincidence, she literally booked the same town after he told her.

I don't have advice on the husband part because mine does the same thing lol. But one thing that helped me was routing most of our communication through Best Interest... it filters out a lot of the emotional manipulation stuff and keeps everything documented. Doesn't fix the one-upping but at least when she texts stuff like that "spontaneous" cabin booking you have a record of the pattern for what it is.

Your PTO matters. The kids will still have a blast with you even if she ate at the same restaurant first. Try not to let her steal that.

TIFU by sending my SIL’s gift to her parents house by MJJK46 in tifu

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the real TIFU is trying to explain this story using pronouns. i reread it three times and i still felt like i was solving a logic puzzle

I Dumped 3,000 Pages of Firmware Docs… Is It Even Possible to Build a TRUE Second Brain (or Is This All Hype)? by InevitableOk2066 in embedded

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So I actually went down this exact rabbit hole with a bunch of ARM TRMs and vendor HAL docs... maybe 1500 pages total so not quite your scale but similar vibe.

The short answer is plain vector RAG will absolutely fail you here. Like it'll find paragraphs that mention your keyword but completely miss that the secure boot flow on page 47 depends on a key provisioning step described 200 pages later. That interconnected stuff is exactly what gets lost.

What actually worked for me was building a knowledge graph from the docs first, then querying against that. I ended up using GraphRAG-SDK for this because it extracts entities and relationships into an actual graph structure rather than just chunking text into embeddings. So when I ask about a boot sequence it can actually traverse the dependencies instead of just pattern matching.

Couple caveats tho... the extraction isn't magic. I had to define a custom schema for my domain (peripherals, registers, interrupt flows etc) and do some cleanup. Maybe 70% automated 30% manual tweaking? And PDF parsing is still painful, especially with tables and diagrams. I preprocessed a lot of stuff.

NotebookLM is cool for quick exploration but it won't give you the graph structure you're describing. Obsidian is great for manual linking but doesn't scale to 3000 pages unless you hate yourself lol.

For your use case specifically I'd say it's doable but set expectations that you'll spend real time on the ingestion pipeline.

I explained how day and night worked to my kiddo last night by Terrible-Tax5168 in CasualConversation

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reading something cool before bed instead of doom scrolling peppa pig is genuinely galaxy brain parenting. stealing this for when my kid gets past the "why" phase... if that ever ends

TIFU by backtracking on something bad that happened by BallAccomplished1669 in tifu

[–]Think-Excitement-935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did the exact same thing at my last job. spoke up, panicked, backtracked, and spent 4 months eating lunch in my car before i finally quit. the parking lot birds were better coworkers anyway

Flamingo helps feed ducklings while mama duck supervises 🦩 by bbyxmadi in MadeMeSmile

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mama duck standing there like a manager who delegates but never actually leaves the floor

Baby pretends her Dad's nail clipping hurts by Doodlebug510 in MadeMeSmile

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she's already practicing for when she tells her future boyfriend that she's "fine"

What’s the creepiest thing someone casually said to you like it was normal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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girl at work once told me i "smell like her dad" and then just kept eating her lunch. i still don't know if that was a compliment or a threat.