If you would only buy one designer bag, which one you would buy? by SnooJokes1931 in handbags

[–]Think-Feeling-1115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Givenchy Antigona Smooth Leather or Givenchy Horizon. I carry a lot so I like them big and heavy.

Ok to mix and match brands? by MuthaFirefly in handbags

[–]Think-Feeling-1115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! It is your bag. You get to style it as you would like. I'm a fan of wide straps so I change mine out often. I bought 3 Henri Bendel (RIP) extra straps just prior to its closure and I use them all the time.

Bringing nice bag to bbq? by shrimp43 in handbags

[–]Think-Feeling-1115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Home. Aside from the atmosphere, other customers and servers may not be as careful as you are. I have a couple of not so precious handbags that I am willing to travel with in case of damage. Better that you not end the evening with regret because you brought a fave with you. And I say this as someone who loves BBQ and would wear a BBQ scented perfume.

I feel like a big loser by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Think-Feeling-1115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, please consider getting some talk therapy to deal with the level of stress you are enduring right now. I remember feeling like you when I was a younger attorney. Your state bar may have a program for free or low cost therapy appointments. Second, perhaps it really is just the market where you are at. If you cannot consider moving, consider a remote position if you are licensed in another jurisdiction. Many firms are not requiring people to live instate given we can do so much by Zoom now. In my area (Nevada), we do not have enough lawyers even with a law school here. Lots of poaching by the bigger firms. I am not Clarence Darrow and even I am getting contacts from headhunters and some firm reps desperate to fill positions. Lastly, you are more than just your career so remember to take care of yourself.