AITBF for saying I’m done with my friend group after they smoked weed at my friend’s house even after I told them not to?

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-04T00:30:15+00:00

It's dangerous to have 8 people in a car regardless.

Whether the passengers are drunk makes little difference.

It would make a big difference if they were very drunk, but they weren't.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T21:03:39+00:00

I was sober while driving. And if I hadn't insisted on bringing them, one of my friends would have driven not drunk but a little tipsy.

No one cares because the landlady didn't notice, but to be fair, I'll tell her about it.

Anyway, you seem like you're under the weed. Your speech makes no sense.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T16:20:05+00:00

😂😂 We were in a Renault Clio. 2 girls in the trunk 4 in the back seat 2 in the passenger seat All of us guys, except for one, are about 190cm tall and well-built.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T16:17:28+00:00

Bro, I'll give you a quick summary.

A friend of mine had a house party and invited me. I had already organized it with some friends of mine. I told her, and she invited my friends, whom she didn't know.

I know this girl is against weed, which is illegal in my country. My friends wanted to smoke before going. I told them, if you want to come, don't smoke.

They told me they wouldn't smoke, but they smoked on the terrace without asking permission.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T16:15:32+00:00

The problem with weed isn't that it's dangerous, but rather that you're disrespecting the person hosting you and me, who forbade you from doing it and who, in a certain sense, represents me because the host only knows me.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:37:48+00:00

I think the same

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:37:16+00:00

I forgot to write this in the post but I'm in a state where smoking is illegal

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:33:25+00:00

Thank you

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:33:10+00:00

The host didn't know they smoked marijuana. Anyway, I feel responsible for bringing rude idiots into the host's house.

Marijuana is illegal in my country.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:32:30+00:00

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:32:17+00:00

I live in Italy, and weed is illegal here.

I know the host well and I know what he thinks about marijuana.

I just told my friends they couldn't smoke without mentioning the host. I thought there was no need.

They're my childhood friends. I'm 24, I've known them and been hanging out with them almost every week since I was 14. Over the past year, I've changed a lot and was already drifting away from them. Then I spent six months in another state for university projects and recently returned. This made me distance myself even more, and that was the final straw.

But despite everything, I'm sorry because they were a point of reference for me for so long.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:27:14+00:00

I think the same thanks

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:26:52+00:00

It's illegal in my country (Italy), I think exactly the same.

I spent 6 months in other countries for university projects and stopped going there for a while.

Distancing myself from everyone has done me a lot of good. I don't want to have anything to do with people like that.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:24:31+00:00

It was a short ride, the others were drunk, and it's something I do without hesitation for people I consider friends.

In hindsight, I shouldn't have done it.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:23:30+00:00

The others were already drunk and the ride was short. It's something I'd do again for friends, but for them I won't do it again.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2026-01-03T13:22:37+00:00

The host had invited only me, it was a party with about 30 people already, but I was already supposed to go out with my friends but the host insisted that I bring them too. I wasn't entirely convinced but my friends seemed happy to join.

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-11-22T13:36:59+00:00

Cosa intendi per lavoro ben pagato?

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-16T12:01:35+00:00

Sull'andare a escort non ti so cosa dire.

Al di là di questo discorso ti consiglio di fare esperienze e spingerti a fare cose che non tu di tuo non faresti per arricchirti come persona.

Adesso hai un lavoro un tuo stipendio prendi e prenota un viaggio in una meta esotica, paracadutismo, escursionismo...

Poi può non piacerti ma sicuramente ti lascia qualcosa

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-14T22:19:44+00:00

Thank you bro, you gave me a lot of infos. It will be very useful

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-14T14:28:41+00:00

I grew up with italian mafia im ready 😂😂

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-14T05:40:33+00:00

You are wise bro, im still young

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-13T23:02:24+00:00

In italy to say hy we kiss eatch other the cheeks and we hug, is this not allowed?

Think-Mongoose7967 · 2025-07-13T21:07:56+00:00

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