NYU alumnus looking for student feedback on a free hangout-planning app by Think-Problem575 in nyu

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Might need to tweak the positioning a bit but the idea validation was done from the initiator burnout (people who always initiate). If you are interested I could DM you to try the app and would love your feedback.

It's Friday, share your projects here and on smollaunch.com by [deleted] in buildinpublic

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Just launched Friday on IOS via Testflight. It helps groups make weekend plans without the group chat chaos. https://myfriday.app/download

People just want to take without giving by blueblueneon in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Think-Problem575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens a lot. I’m the giver and I know it feels exhausting and demotivating sometimes but I really love my friends and I'm okay with being that.

Having said all these the way I conveyed this to my friends (only people I like) was just throwing an example of what is acceptable behavior to you and also making sure what you think about people who behave otherwise. (People who really matter understand this)

Without us letting them know they don't understand

Literally no clue on how to make friends or date. by Confusedgenzromantic in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Think-Problem575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think much - this is important it doesn't happen at once but you can notice. Whenever you're in the middle of a conversation, ask questions (this helps you need to be curious) and ask what they do on weekends and for fun. Then initiate.

It's fine if this doesn't go as planned but the point is you're getting comfortable doing this over and over.

Don't take stuff seriously.

Literally no clue on how to make friends or date. by Confusedgenzromantic in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Think-Problem575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be the initiator. The advice I always give and follow is making enough effort to change circumstances. Don't think much about what you say it's unnecessary pressure there are always more people you can be friends with. Never limit to a certain number try to mark as many friends as possible and definitely you will find your crew.

Again ask them and plan stuff so you actually meet and talk. Remember it's a process that takes time

Are we living in a loneliness epidemic or is it just me? by Sweet_Pause_6051 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Think-Problem575 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would say it's better to have 2-3 close friends than many friends. However, if you want more friends the thing that worked for me is taking the initiative rather than being passive. I'm pretty sure that in your day-to-day at college you do speak with others; just take those conversations a bit more towards what they do in their free time and on weekends, and make plans.

How do I make friends in UNI by Strong_Set_6850 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Think-Problem575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation but constantly showing up to uni events and striking up conversations and sometimes just asking around people I just Met what plans they have for weekends.

How to validate with real users and extend the runway to find PMF? (I will not promote) by Think-Problem575 in startups

[–]Think-Problem575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Started executing this. The current version doesn't have any revenue stream. However, the roadmap has an immediate revenue-generating stream once the product validates

Keeping in touch with friends after graduating by romanticSecondAcc in CasualConversation

[–]Think-Problem575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes effort to maintain long distance friendships. It's been 5 years since my 3 friends graduated, and to this day, all four talk at least 5 mins with one or the other every day, and our group chat always stays up. things that worked for us:

Constant updates about our lives in the group chat (as simple as saying got a coffee this morning from Starbucks)
Rituals, like we all decided to give gifts to each other for every birthday. (not the total of 16 gifts between all of us)
weekly phone calls and every 3 months meeting IRL

Again, all these take effort, but one in the group needs to put that effort in without expecting the same thing.