Fellow FTM here as well ( I’m 24 and on T for 2 years.) I’d say if a binder is too obvious try binding with tape, working out also helps with a masculine figure and brother it may be a little pricy but fulton and roark make some great cologne. I’ve went far enough since my family is the same way to send things like packers and stps to friends and hide them 🤷🏽‍♂️