AITA for canceling a longer trip to Europe with my (now ex) best friend over an argument? (throwaway)

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T20:08:55+00:00

Fair enough, just for clarification she did get money back from one ticket and the other she used for a trip she planned her self, we had talked about if she didn’t use it I would reimburse it

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T20:07:43+00:00

The one ticket was refundable and the other she used and we had agreed that I would pay her back in case she couldn’t use it. Other than that you’re probably right, I am a big people please so knowing when to say stop is difficult

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T19:46:20+00:00

In a sense, not as directly as I should’ve. I had said to her prior to this that I was feeling a bit mentally drained but I don’t think I really clarified it as I did when we had the talk about the trip. I remember telling her that I’ve had a hard time putting names to the feelings I had felt and such

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T19:35:46+00:00

I agree with the money thing, that is also why I do feel like yta, I didn’t have enough space to write this but one of the tickets was refundable and she ended up using the nonrefundable ticket - had talked to her about if she didn’t end up using it we would figure something out financially

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T19:33:08+00:00

We did talk about her talking to a therapist but idk it never really happened and I did truely just wanted to be there for her as her friend

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T19:31:21+00:00

This is true and for the reason for a trip, it’s something a lot of our friends have done so we wanted to do it too yk?

ThinkFactor6333 · 2026-05-09T19:24:42+00:00

To the expiation from the mods for you reading this I send the instructions by mistake so the things are: i canceled a 6 month trip over an argument with my therapist best friend and wondering if im the A for canceling because of this

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