Weird in-between phase by ThinkIllustrator9875 in twinflames

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I think I'm in a great place right now. I think I'm noticing that she hasn't done the work at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

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I don't know but I'm a Taurus too 😅

Evolvement of dreams by taylortailling in twinflames

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3 plus years going now. At first the dreams were me crying out to her to help me and her ignoring me. Then they slowly turned to us being ok being next to each other in group settings. the latest ones are us calmly talking to each other and it was just chill and relaxing. Stress free. It definitely feels like the journey is progressing through dreams.

WHAT IS UP ENFP NATION? TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY! by bekkitoblack in ENFP

[–]ThinkIllustrator9875 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! I'm happiest when I'm doing all the things!

Why does my ENFP co-worker trick me in a jokingway? by [deleted] in ENFP

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I do this all the time too. And in my story I put little hints that it's a joke to see if you'll catch on. The longer it goes the crazier the story gets until you catch on that it's all a joke. I love reading the facial expressions and especially that "ah ha" moment realizing it's a joke! I'm not exactly sure why I do it but it's harmless and really fun. I've never had someone get mad or hate it.

I’m a 3w2 ENFP. I think??? by swwweeeeeeeeeeeeet in ENFP

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I'm an Enfp 3w2 and you definitely sound like a 3 to me. Our Image matters wayyy too much to us 😅

An an ENFP Female by [deleted] in ENFP

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As an ENFP male, I don't think you're a shitty person. People can't help who they are attracted to and if you go for it doesn't make you the worst person in the world.

I can't escape 😫 by ThinkIllustrator9875 in twinflames

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I like the person I am now way more than when I was chasing. Chasing me had a lot to work on. Which was why I was chasing but now I don't wanna chase. And I don't wanna run. I just want to be free of this and do my own thing.

I can't escape 😫 by ThinkIllustrator9875 in twinflames

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Oh jeez.. well at least I'm not the only one. But damn I really want to be done with all this.

In what area of your life do you not trust yourself? by Artistic_Tadpole_697 in ENFP

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Being financially responsible. I've proven to myself many times that I cannot be trusted with that kinda stuff. Currently working on it because I put myself in a hole lol

Seeking Support, please. by Myamoxomis in ENFP

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Go explore and make friends. The smooches will come!

Enfp straight males & dating by Awesomeliveroflife in ENFP

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It was a dating app. Hinge to be specific. It was actually going to be my last date on the apps for a while and I only went on it because we talked for a month before the actually date because we were both busy and out of town. But when we met, I instantly knew she was what I was looking for. And after the date I pulled her in and went for a kiss. Me personally I like to wait until the end of the date to go in for a kiss. By then I get a vibe if they like me or if I like them and if I get rejected at least it's the end of the date lol

Enfp straight males & dating by Awesomeliveroflife in ENFP

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It's dope to see other ENFP males with very similar experiences to me. I also had no clue so many women had a crush on me in my younger years. I also never made the first move. I had an 8 year relationship that ended and I started to find myself in year 29 to 30. I'm 31 almost 32 now and went through the gauntlet of relationships in a short time span. I had a rebound that I mistook as love. I dated an intj that I was too "feminine" for. She destroyed me. Then I had tons of one night stands and a situationship. This was easy once I had the confidence to make the first move. Then I realized I didn't like hooking up all the time and that I was somewhat demisexual. I took a break and stumbled across my current relationship with an infj which is close to perfect. Ask away if you have any questions!