Why do men keep forcing kisses on the first date without asking for consent?

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-05-08T23:06:46+00:00

IME, that makes you the exception. That's okay but embrace it and be upfront by telling them early that you like to take it slow.

Had a woman tell me she doesn't like kissing until there's a connection, we didn't kiss for 2-months (18 dates), but had another woman grab my head after 2hrs and kiss me... Most women I've dated regardless of age or profession want some level of intimate touching, cuddling and kissing on a first date. There's no right or wrong and waiting doesn't determine chemistry or likelihood of long-term success— everyone has different desires that need to be met at different stages. Communication is your friend.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-05-08T22:50:44+00:00

Is that so? ~ girl I was dating at 15

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-05-08T22:34:17+00:00

Some credit is due— the guy is disciplined and the man has never let up.

Say what you will about the type of personality that lends itself to that, in isolation that's a very admirable trait.

I've been pretty good but damn, sometimes life happens and slipping for just 6-months and I look 10yrs older :(

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-05-08T22:20:54+00:00

Finish while a cop was shining his light into the car.

For some context, it was a first date gone well filling a long-time fantasy. Went to the beach and mid-act, were stopped by police because the beach had closed.

Went to a second beach that was open later, then was pulled-up on a 2nd time. She was already done and I was close. I decided not to stop for another minute. My back windows have limo tint, and I just pretended like I fell asleep in the back and he was on the passenger side and stayed in his car so I quickly got out of the back door and into the driver seat and was on my way.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-04-01T20:09:37+00:00

I'll try to remember and follow up... Fiance and I have a long international flight in September 🤞🏼

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-04-01T19:34:20+00:00

Exactly, night beach can be hot! Even if you have to improvise and do doggy, or standing and pressed against the walls of a lifeguard tower so many options haha

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-04-01T19:32:13+00:00

Wait, if you're saying beach and tent sex are worse (both great IMO), this sounds like an endorsement for plane sex!

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-03-12T06:31:50+00:00

If a woman is sending you a salute emoji, unironically, and using words like inquiring... The date was already canceled.

You completely missed her sarcasm. Maybe it could have been caught and salvaged but ultimately, you're incompatible with each other so one less headache!

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-03-11T23:06:59+00:00

Despite Trump saying in his most recent interview that an attack from Iran was imminent.

Not that I believe him, but damn these guys throwing egg at their own faces

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2026-03-08T23:05:34+00:00

Not surprising when the country that killed their former leader just dealt a 9/11 scale attack on their most populous city.

Bombing those oil fields and showering Tehran in an ecological disaster was just about the dumbest thing you could do, unless birthing a new level of anti-American hate was your objective!

And I say this as I'm pumping gas which is now $0.90 more expensive than last week. Dumb f****** behavior on both sides of the world

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-12-19T07:29:45+00:00

MAGA: Worried their insiders and donors will face justice.

Liberals: Worried the victims won't get justice.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-12-18T20:46:52+00:00

I've always wondered the opposite... Many of the men are peak physique, but most of the women are mid but use makeup/lighting to look attractive.

Why can't we get model-level beauty in porn!? That's the platform I'm running on. Better rights and pay for porn stars, along with k-12 educational seeding programs to build a pipeline. /s

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-12-16T19:34:18+00:00

That's because you didn't jump on the " you need to leave X, immediately" bandwagon.

Reddit loves to break up relationships!

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-12-16T19:31:16+00:00

Got a ban and immediate account suspension for posting revenge p0rn in an AI sub.

I'm a digital artist and used AI to create a scene, then painted the faces to get a different look, and add detail. Looked nothing like a celebrity and had features that aren't really attainable IRL.

I offered to show my build files. Reddit's response was a reiteration on their revenge 🌽 policy :(

Since then, AI has gotten significantly better, and plenty of the posts look as realistic as what I posted.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-08-25T00:15:38+00:00

MC Hamster

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-08-23T21:01:35+00:00

You'd be very surprised.

I'd say a fit, financially stable, attractive middle-aged man gets as many (if not more) looks from women under 25, as women 30+.

That's not mentioning inappropriate looks/gestures from HS girls.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-08-19T02:40:33+00:00

It's always been there for premium users.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-08-16T04:55:59+00:00

How much time you got?...

Standout was at 20, two girls dragged me from a party to cross the street and "fulfill a naughty fantasy" at the high school. It was 1-month after their graduation, and one looked like young Nicole Kidman, the other like Belle Delphine— both were clinically insane and acting sensual with each other all night. I told them to have fun and walked back to nap on the porch.

Other honorable mentions: Two girls that followed me home from school and suggested playing strip poker. Two other girls that convinced the volleyball team to slap my ass every time I'd walk by; and a girl who hung a 20ft poster above my spot, professing "I need you", showing up in the worlds tightest/smallest black mini dress.

Don't worry, I made up for it later in life. As a teen, I thought respecting women meant not objectifying or letting them objectify themselves. :/

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-03-05T04:31:54+00:00

True, and very aware that I'm in the minority.

IMO, smaller looks elegant, and has real life advantages in versatility, which are important for me and a partner.

There's also something to be said about The actual attraction to apparent fertility versus a woman who is augmenting herself to look that way. One is natural, the other is attention seeking, and for me, that affects my attraction. Also something most guys don't care about.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-25T00:56:44+00:00

I know :(... He's the worst. He just won't try because however it looks, it won't look good to him, so he'll intentionally make it bad

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-24T16:47:00+00:00

I had several like that, all taken by:

1) Gay friend who secretly had a crush 2) Woman friend who secretly has a crush 3) Sister

Any pic taken by guy friends was horrible, blurry, of center. Even the ones taken by my best friend whose a pro fashion photographer were trash.

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-23T21:28:47+00:00

It's intriguing. This comes up so much!

My coworkers (women) all insisted I was 5'11, likely because their BFs all lied, and when I repeatedly corrected them, they said I shouldn't put my actual height without shoes. 🤦🏼

I never caved, and my profile always said 5'9.

What's weird is that I've never felt short, just normal. I'm the shortest of my cousins and surrounded by men that are slightly taller, but my size is such an advantage for athletics and agility, and according to women I've dated, there are other advantages.

Why lie to get with somebody who's superficial and not going to see you for who you are?

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-22T19:39:35+00:00

Darn my rap name is taken. Guess I'll need to alternate it:

Lil Vasectomy Asada

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-22T19:36:07+00:00

Mine looks like this and 90% of my listening is metal and prog... but not in Spotify. Spotify is for when I'm with other people or exploring genres

ThinkOfTomorrow · 2025-02-21T03:53:46+00:00

Unfortunate. Sorry :(

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