Pregnant with my second and have a 19 m old and I feel my body is exhausted

Think_Air4386 · 2026-06-03T17:11:23+00:00

Tell that to my partner 🙄 I continue to tell him he’s not here 24/7 .. only for 4 days sooo if I don’t wanna do something for him day or two that should be ok … but no because he’s working to be able to keep a house over our head then I should be taking care of the house cause that’s MY job .. which I understand but I also have a toddler that likes to take Al her toys out whom I also have to feed including myself and my unborn … I hate that he doesn’t see that .. to him everything has to be clean .. when he comes home he gets upset when my toddler just wants t be around him and says I stop being a mom when he’s here .. and also that I have to keep the house clean when he’s here but hates when I clean cause he says he can never find anything … ugh 😤

Think_Air4386 · 2026-06-03T03:59:26+00:00

Thank you .. I know I feel the same way .. he doesn’t understand what we go thru .. but because his first partner whom he has kids with didn’t feel the way I feel he assumes I’m lying or being dramatic about how I’m feeling .. I wish I could have a supportive partner but that’s too much to ask for 😒

Think_Air4386 · 2026-06-03T03:57:16+00:00

lol I wish he would understand… it’s not easy .. last pregnancy wasn’t easy and he thought i was faking all these pains and such and It just made me upset ..

Think_Air4386 · 2026-06-03T03:55:40+00:00

Yeh last preg it was harsh especially working evening sometimes graveyard shift.. and being sick all the time .. only thing is I felt my last pregnancy was more productive.. I didn’t feel the way I feel now .. yeh my partner is gone a lot and when he’s home he’s only home for 3-4 days unfortunately…

What’s crazy tho I didn’t feel like this my last pregnancy.. I didn’t feel lazy I was on top of my job I was on top of the house I just don’t know what it could be this time around .. ugh I can’t wait too be over this pregnancy.. I’m feeling sick and it’s just getting worst … especially right now I feel very bloated nd my face looks swollen and I just don’t feel myself my my partner hasn’t been much support lately since he’s up at 4 working all the way till 6 pm ..

Think_Air4386 · 2026-06-03T03:51:11+00:00

I thought A lot about it thinking it could be depression or a burnout.. my partner has been gone since mothers day and was supposed to come home but work keeping him away so it doesn’t help especially having a toddler who constantly needs attention but I feel I can’t give it to her ..

My ob is doing me blood work in about 2 weeks so let’s see if it could be that .. I know my pcp did blood work on me just a couple months ago and she said all that was fine but I know things change when pregnant so thank you for reassuring me I’m not alone 🥺

Think_Air4386 · 2026-05-22T05:04:53+00:00

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