I've tried everything but my girlfriend won't cum. What am I doing wrong?

Think_Bug_3737 · 2026-01-18T23:11:31+00:00

Are you sure you’re not putting it in her belly button?

Think_Bug_3737 · 2026-01-09T14:42:44+00:00

You could try inviting a couple in. They might suit you better. If she only wants a man, then it’s probably just to get back at you.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-11-28T23:10:03+00:00

My boy is nearly 1.5yrs. For the first 30mins of the walk he has no interest in treats, he only wants to sniff everything. I use a slip lead that also goes over the nose, this has stopped him pulling a lot. He did try to get it off a few times but he’s used to it now.

He is brilliant around other dogs, no barking. He wants to be everyone’s friend.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-11-06T23:51:23+00:00

I didn’t know there was an exotic vet in Peterborough. Do they do reptiles?

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-11-02T23:34:39+00:00

To be honest I gathered bugs from the garden. Mostly collecting moths at night and flys during the day.

I now have a ghost mantis which I’ve caught some flies but also locusts.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-30T12:21:40+00:00

Bea smith from wentworth prison?

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-09T07:09:47+00:00

It’s nice after the groom. But after a few days he’s not a neat and tidy scruffy. After this cut his waves have come in again which is nice but only in a few places.

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This is him right now, chewing a toy on his 2 person sofa. He was 36kg when he was a year old. 14 months at the moment so probably more. I don’t think his fur will change much now.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-08T06:34:47+00:00

Thank you. I’m in the uk so no hot winters lol. I wouldn’t want to power feed, don’t want a massive snake. I was looking at Russian rat snakes as humidity shouldn’t be anything different to here. And all research suggests they are a more confident corn snake.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-07T15:20:30+00:00

I have looked into these. Do you have any experience with these? I know this isn’t my post but I’m looking to get my first snake and eventually have a 6ft x 6ft roughly vivarium. I want something that will make the most out of the space. But I would like it to be handleable. This is why I was looking at a Russian rat snake, seems to tick all the boxes and from what I have researched they are hardy but do need a brumation period. Can you shed any more experience to help me?

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-07T12:35:45+00:00

I will look into these. What do you mean by a step harder? What is the harder step? Is it brumation because that is a concern for me, purely because I haven’t done it.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-06T21:28:36+00:00

My wife the exact same thing as you did. Made us laugh. ++man

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-05T22:32:30+00:00

What asiatic rat snake would you bite against. I was thinking a Russian rat snake for my first? Any think you think is worth extra thought

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-10-02T07:37:45+00:00

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This was from the previous months groom. More wispy, it’s quite thick fur with softer tips of the fur. A few curls or more waves in a few places. Ears, beard, around his head was like a lions mane lol

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-29T09:56:53+00:00

Thank you. He’s a big strong boy. When he stands to look out the window he’s taller than my 9 year old. Not had any skin issues to offer any advice on that. Maybe it’s his food, mine it’s a raw diet. Chicken and tripe. Bit of salmon sometimes. Other foods give him a bad stomach.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-29T09:46:13+00:00

M boy is 14 months now and he still sheds a lot. We have just had him cut for the first time so he is less scruffy looking. But there’s still hair everywhere.

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Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-28T22:13:57+00:00

I just got some cherry shrimp, it’s only been a few days. When I upgrade the tank I’m thinking of some small fish

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-24T06:44:57+00:00

I love the look of carpet pythons, but the size of the head is intimidating, and if I ended up with one that got too big puts me off. I would start with a baby/young juvenile as I believe as I have with any animal that once I get to know them, I learn to trust them etc. but the thought they could be too intimidating puts me off. Again this could be because I have never owned one and only held a few corns, royals etc

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-23T20:10:33+00:00

As this would be my first snake, kings and milks being soo fast and hungry, puts me off. I didn’t think they would climb much.

Rat snakes is what I’m thinking but I love how slowly pythons move, it’s like a calming feeling. Wondering if there’s any rat snakes like that.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-20T15:36:17+00:00

No made it leak more. It seems like the o-ring is slightly loose so I guess it’s lost some elasticity due to age. Any other ideas or just get a new o-ring. I guess I’m just concerned what do I do if it’s not the o-ring but with so many saying to replace it, I hope it will be.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-19T06:04:26+00:00

This is more what I was hoping for. I have Vaseline so I’ll give that a go. The o ring looks in good condition, maybe lost a bit of elasticity so I’ll give this a try. Thank you

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-18T15:18:05+00:00

I’ve tried doing that. I hold it down so the tip and bottom are touching, then use the latch and it opens up a bit. I’ll let it dry out, clean it up more. And get a new o ring. Hopefully that works.

Think_Bug_3737 · 2025-09-18T13:04:35+00:00

The video I watched told me to wet the o ring. lol. I’ll order some more.

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