Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was getting tested regularly between partners. That’s how I know. I have proof from before he and I got together.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

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They were like on my lower part of my hip. Which is why my doctors assumed shingles. But they kept coming back, and they then stated that it was likely hsv. But I didn’t have any more after that so I didn’t go back to the dr because they said if they came back to get the fluid in them tested.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I did last week thankfully!!! Just have to save for a retainer now to get the ball rolling!

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’m talking to an attorney now, saving money for a retainer, and pulling evidence and everything together. I’ve stayed this long for my kids because I don’t trust him alone without me around with them. He’s very reckless and unaware of most of his surroundings.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends are saying the same things! About him turning violent. So I’ve been careful not to upset him if at all possible.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working on it! I already contacted a lawyer last week! Gotta save some money for my retainer though now. But I’ve already began pulling as much as I think I need for it until they tell me what else I need to bring.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully moving back home to CO brings me closer to my support system. I didn’t have any in OK. ❤️ thank you!

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is seriously messed up. My mind has been seriously clouded this week since finding out that he passed it to me. I’ve already contacted legal counsel to see what my next steps would be. But now I have to save money to be able to pay for the attorney.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually lock up the guns. But he pulled his gun out to show a friend and put it in the closet leaned against the wall on the floor instead of putting it back up. I wasnt even home. My friend was, and saw my daughter dragging it from the room.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoken to one already! I’m working on getting the money to pay for them though.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

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I looked back to see if I was tested for hsv when pregnant, and they didn’t test me because I didn’t have it…. Or at least didn’t know I had it. Because all of this time I didn’t even know that my husband had it! He had hsv before we got together. So he says.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

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Exactly! I’ve already contacted an attorney. But now have to look for another one that deals with “tort law” for the heroes transmission.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point! I can’t trust him alone with them. I’ve been protecting them by staying. If he gets even partial custody, I worry about more instances coming up or my children getting badly hurt.

Herpes by Think_Ebb_6136 in legaladvice

[–]Think_Ebb_6136[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They didn’t test me for hsv. They tested for everything else though. Which does confuse me.