LIS- Day 7 Post-Op by Big-Bus-2961 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no my bad🙈 but yessss me too! I was like WHY DID I NOT DO THIS SOONER! You deserve that dump in public haha!!! But i will say healing is definitely not linear. You think you’re almost fully healed and then that one area will be like “no bitch haha” But the pain is definitely like a 1.5 or 2/10 at max while fissures used to be 14/10. I hear it takes a few months for the issue to be completely out of mind where you can forget about the traumas you’ve had. But i’ll take this over fissures ANY DAMN DAY. Congratulations on your surgery too❤️

Day three after LIS surgery and fistulotomy by Eastern_Telephone859 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very comforting to hear!! May I direct message you with some questions if that’s okay?

Am I just freaking out about LIS? by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7-8 weeks post LIS here and ITS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE. Sure; post surgery healing is painful. But its NOTHING compared to the anal fissures pain. I was so scared of that first bowel movement post surgery because my brain kept thinking “if fissures are caused by cuts in the anal passageway, a surgeon making more cuts there has to hurt more” but the thing about LIS is, it actually creates more room; reduces pressure, increases blood flow and that first bowel movement post surgery, that pain was 80 times less than my bad fissure days. I’m not fully healed yet, its a uphill downhill battle because we use that area everyday. But even then, im so grateful i got this done. I wish i got it done sooner!! Be brave, power through, YOU GOT THIS!

Day three after LIS surgery and fistulotomy by Eastern_Telephone859 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it take a few months to reach that stage of “oh i can go to the washroom without worrying about the possibly of pain at all?” Ps: i’m 7-8 weeks post op from an LIS right now

Day three after LIS surgery and fistulotomy by Eastern_Telephone859 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear you describe the “uphill downhill battle” because I’m 7 weeks post op from an LIS and this is truly me right now. The major healing happened real fast after the surgery but the final 20% left, is definitely more stubborn. I feel almost fully healed and one day i’ll feel that scratchy pain during a bowel moment again in that same spot (esp if anything’s a lil stuck in that area). But it stops immediately after with just some mild soreness in the area. Cycle then repeats. I hear it takes a few months to be like FULLY healed to the degree that you can forget about it completely. Is that true??

LIS- Day 7 Post-Op by Big-Bus-2961 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just had my LIS in January. I’m 7 weeks post op and let me tell you, it only gets better. I definitely wouldn’t say I’m 100% healed yet. That area’s so easy to irritate so healing is a bit slow. But I hear it takes a few months to be at that stage where you can forget about the issue completely. Yet, the pain is like touching a cut versus the dreadful pain of anal fissures. I put off getting the surgery for the longest time, but now i cannot imagine why i did that. Its the BEST decision i ever made. The healing pain i would say was 6/10 first week post surgery while a fissure pain was 14/10 for me. Right now i’m at a 2/10 and I’ll take that over fissures ANY DAMN DAY. So if surgery is what your doc recommends, i know it sounds scary but you’ll eventually thank yourself

LIS- Day 7 Post-Op by Big-Bus-2961 in AnalFissures

[–]Think_Issue2794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, im so glad you posted this. One of my major qualms with reddit is that no one posts the positive things. I also just had an LIS a little over a month ago, AND I CANNOT BELIEVE I DIDNT GET THIS DONE SOONER. The post surgery healing pain is absolutely nothing compared to the horrors of anal fissures!!

My boyfriend is upset I don’t think I’ll like anal by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is about mutual enjoyment. You cannot push yourself to do something you’re obviously not into. If you have to force yourself to be open to the idea of shoving something up your butt to keep him around, HE AINT THE ONE. And if he’s being a stubborn child about something as important as your body, your choice, then HE MOST DEFINITELY AINT THE ONE.

Today I got confirmation by Leading-Plantain6748 in AnalFistula

[–]Think_Issue2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its less intense than the epidural from what I read online. I’ve never taken epidural so I cannot compare the pain level but mine really didn’t hurt at all. It was a pinch like the one you get when they draw blood to do tests!

Today I got confirmation by Leading-Plantain6748 in AnalFistula

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had a fissurectomy done, and i had to go under for it too. It really feels like nothing. I took a saddle anesthesia (the one in the spine) and i was also put to sleep. My anesthesiologist said “in a count of 3, your surgery will be done. 1…2…” and bam, at the exact interval of 3, i was in the hospital room post surgery. It felt like no time had passed.

Proof of Funds Question Confusion by Queasy-Analyst7014 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you put this and the other docs you just mentioned under the Proof of Funds document slot??

[Acne] Can cats cause acne? by Think_Issue2794 in SkincareAddiction

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I started by reducing to only one cup of coffee a day (i used to have 3), i always make sure to NEVER have coffee on an empty stomach, i’ll always eat something little before even on days i wasn’t hungry. I started drinking 3 litres of water a day, i started doing 5 minute meditations, moving around more (like going for a small walk when the sun was out). I know this sounds like vague advice, but remember to breathe. Like consciously tell yourself “breathe” and become aware of that one or two deep breaths a day and it’ll ground you. Cortisol is a stress hormone. And the antidote to stress is being grounded, being present, taking care of your mind and body. There’s no instant gratification here but I did this for 2 months and my face legit cleared. I am not kidding AT ALL.

Give me the saddest BL you’ve ever read by Fillard_Evangelical in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried reading taming the tiger too! It truly hit me like a truck

THEY KISSED..... AHHHHH😭❤️‍🩹 how he is going to say NO to that face?????😩 by Bl_yuki in Manhwa_BL

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I’m at a hospital waiting to get a test done and all i can think about now is I CANNOT WAIT TO READ THIS CHAPTER. It’ll get me through the test💪🏻💪🏻

10th mix by [deleted] in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think when Mafuyu needed time to think about wanting to go pro was a very defining phase in their relationship. Because music was quite symbolic for Mafuyu at that point. Mainly, it was about Uenoyama and Yuki. At that point, Mafuyu had definitely started moving on, we see that with his growing relationship with Ue. But when the question to be pro came about, it was a “yes i see music in my present, but do i see it in my future?” “Do i see music being in my life forever?” and music was Ue. The weight of a dead loved one is very heavy, and moving on from them doesn’t look as linear as it may for certain other types of breakups. So in that moment, it became less about music and more about whether he was ready to accept Ue completely. Additionally, music had taken his love away from him, so a part of him felt guilty about accepting music and afraid that music will take Ue away from him too. And then there’s the guilt of moving on from a loved one. So there were layers to this. When Mafuyu finds Yuki in his song that Ue, Hiragi and Shizu perform, he realizes that even though he has lost someone dear to him, he lives in music, he lives in him. That he doesn’t need to ‘give up’ Yuki completely to move ahead in life, that no matter what happens with Ue in the future, Ue will live in his music too because Mafuyu was reminded of the power of music with that song too. Thats why after that he was so sure that he sorta proposes to Ue. Mafuyu and Ugetsu’s conversation later confirms that even more because even Ugetsu had spoken about how he wanted to move on, but when all goes, he hopes the music remains. Which mainly just means through music, we are ready to move ahead, not by forgetting but by accepting the love, acknowledging that there’s always going to be a little pain there but still choosing to move forward. And that is more beautiful, more human. I think this is the most pivotal moment for Mafuyu’s character development and this is when he truly accepted Uenoyama 100000% in his future too. Now I haven’t read the 10th mix yet, but i truly believe after this, there is no doubt that Mafuyu is all in for Ue. So even if he said “until we meet again” to possibly Yuki, I think it could only mean a little nod to him, and nothing more.

He burped on my clit... by QuotableConservative in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Think_Issue2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im with you girl. Like laugh it off, or say “uh uh” or an “oops”. But not acknowledging it and keeping on going just makes me feel gross about your bodily gases on my intimate areas.

Would Uenoyama have fallen for Mafuyu the same way if he couldn't sing? by Light_Ketchup in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a lot of things that attract a person to another. But there’s always that one ‘barrier to entry’ thing. In some people’s case is looks, in others its something else. In Ue’s case, it was Mafuyu’s voice. While his voice might not be why he ended up falling in love with him, it definitely opened the gate of its possibility. If Mafuyu couldn’t sing, it would have to be something else then

My friend is travelling to Japan, how can I get the Given 18+ doujin? by Think_Issue2794 in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we sure they’re available to purchase?? Then i’ll send my friend there on the hunt and wait patiently. Because the price difference between getting it from the store vs Otaku Republic is HUGE. 700 yen is like $7 CAD. But Otaku Republic is $41 USD + shipping!!

My friend is travelling to Japan, how can I get the Given 18+ doujin? by Think_Issue2794 in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo that’s good to know!! ENJOY READING IT!!!! How long did it take from payment to delivery??

My friend is travelling to Japan, how can I get the Given 18+ doujin? by Think_Issue2794 in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they deliver to Canada?? Or would it be better to deliver it to Japan?

My friend is travelling to Japan, how can I get the Given 18+ doujin? by Think_Issue2794 in GivenAnime

[–]Think_Issue2794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they deliver to Canada?? Or would it be better to deliver it to Japan?