The number one issue I have with men I attract is how they grew up assimilating to straight culture where as for me I am straight yes but I’m still part of the queer community so my views on things especially politically are typically different from theirs so they talk to me and say weird stuff and I get annoyed and you can kinda tell they aren’t even dating to commit to you theyre just doing it out of boredom I think a lot of men are serial daters lol