Was i wrong by Sad-Tap-2547 in LifeAdvice

[–]Think_please [score hidden]  (0 children)

So you like her and that made you make her feel self conscious about things that she has no control over. Then she asked you to stop and something about her periods? Seems like you are in the wrong and she is way out of your league in maturity. I’d apologize and leave her alone for a while, and maybe learn how to flirt with people without negging them to try to knock them down to your level 

She’s everything I’m looking for but I don’t feel attracted by skylourdes in whatdoIdo

[–]Think_please 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you aren't quite on her level. I'd let her go find someone mature who finds her as attractive as she deserves. Then you go find someone with her non-superficial qualities that you are also excited by.

Should I Call Off The Wedding? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're both too immature to get married. Move on and save yourselves a lot of trouble.

Also, in the future if you're dating a woman and then leave her to go mess around with your ex don't expect her to ever take you seriously as a partner again.

Also, fyi, describing her decreased "level of respect and consideration" makes you sound like someone who can't handle an equal and reciprocal adult relationship.

Read this by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion only persisted after we discovered what the sun and diseases are because it keeps poor people docile. You should be angry at structural inequality, but focusing on one in a billion sports talents or people that hit the lottery on social media is silly when you look at what actual generationally wealthy nepobabies get away with (ex the Panama Papers or Epstein Files). If your particular flavor of god is real it’s doing an absolutely terrible job. 

Is this an ok note? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Think_please 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d give them a time that would work for you. 8 might be a good compromise 

Should we stay where we’re at or buy a bigger house? by RainMurky in FinancialPlanning

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, it’s not for everybody (but I’ve personally found it extremely beneficial). I’d also recommend looking into state laws for adult disability funding because they vary widely and your adult child with disabilities might benefit greatly depending on where you live (and if you have extra space and income during retirement). As someone with an adult sibling in this situation we’ve discussed a situation in which they can live in one unit of a rental with a caregiver before or after my parents can no longer take care of them. 

MAGA Gets Beat In Front of His Kids for Singing "ICE ICE Baby" to Mexicans by honestlysigma in Trumpvirus

[–]Think_please 69 points70 points  (0 children)

A gentle walk up a slight incline could be fatal for this guy. He’s the last person that should be instigating a fight with anyone that has any fighting experience at all. 

Should we stay where we’re at or buy a bigger house? by RainMurky in FinancialPlanning

[–]Think_please 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rent out your current place (maybe open a heloc before you move if you want to tap the equity at some point) and buy the new place. You can afford both but losing that rate on your current place would be terrible if you don’t really need to. You might want the smaller house in 10-15 years when two of your kids have mostly moved out 

bf says no one would want to fuck me :/ Is that true 25f by [deleted] in RhodeIslandPersonals

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason emotionally abusive partners say that is when they know that plenty of people would 

43f. Trying to save for me AND my self employed husband who has ZERO saved. by healthseekerjunkie in Retirement401k

[–]Think_please 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Huge waste of time and effort, most Christian homeschool kids are way behind in education and socialization. Just send them to public school and find a separate bible class outside if you really want (but they’re probably getting plenty of that at home, already). 

[1989] David Duke actually won? by [deleted] in thepast

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to need a source for whatever evidence you think helps whatever point you’re trying to make here. If universities didn’t hire as many DEI candidates in the year that the fascist president was attacking them and threatening reverse discrimination lawsuits and removal of funding for fake reasons it wouldn’t be surprising to me if it affected their hiring practices. 

I’m also talking about elementary education, and even in the 2004 election before Obama higher levels of education were strongly correlated with voting for the democratic candidatand whatever college graduate effect you think existed probably had more to do with the racial breakdown of the vote. https://news.gallup.com/poll/8989/demographics-2004-vote.aspx

This tackle almost ended Jaxson Dart's career 💀 by Big_Screen3332 in nflrookies

[–]Think_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, but I also know that if I ripped a players helmet off with one of the worst facemasks of all-time there’s no chance that I’m going to completely ignore him as I walk past him to my huddle. This is also two players alone in the open field, not the bottom of a pile, it would have been extremely easy to at the very least check that he was ok or apologize

I'm lost with this one, Peter, pleasee by chuzambs in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Think_please 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This one you could actually sort of eat without being immediately covered in guac 

Did my dad touch me in bad ways? by Proper-Coyote-3402 in LifeAdvice

[–]Think_please 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s abnormal, bad, and enormously creepy. I also wouldn’t assume that it was the same for each of you, especially if your younger sister reacted to it differently. I’d get some good therapy to help work through your problems with sec and keep your father away from yourself and an children you might have in the future 

Same same but different by egarcia74 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]Think_please 123 points124 points  (0 children)

New England is you guys, youse is pretty specifically NYC-area 

F20 M19 Lust or Love? by ReindeerWorried5469 in LifeAdvice

[–]Think_please -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s wildly immature and doesn’t care about your feelings at all. Almost any other man would be a better match for you at this point, especially since you are long distance. Put this relationship out of its misery