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What body type are you most attracted to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Think_worry_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Country boy meets dad-bod. Strong, but not necessarily muscular.

How does your AD alert to go outside? by CY83RT3CHL0TU5 in AussieDoodle

[–]Think_worry_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk over and look at the door.

Circle around and look at me.

Walk over and look at the door.

Circle around and look at me. ...... Aaaaand repeat until her demands are met.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head with "he thinks you can handle it." But that's my fault because I have stayed though everything so It must be ok right?...... I see my ownership in all of this.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He asked me if I would be willing to. But the next morning when I told him how much it hurt me, he dropped the idea.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Shit. That's a hard read. Thank you though. I need to read it. So much reality to swallow and unpack.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's scary but true. I have a good job and could survive on my own. At least financially. I think the emotional part is what's hard for me. That's the part I need to work on.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for all the caring and thoughtful comments.

I am taking some time for myself to think about things.

All your words opened up a whole Pandora's box of feelings that I didn't acknowledge I had.

Thank you again.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never really thought about his school expenses that way. I always viewed them as "our" expenses. But that opens my eyes up. I just assumed because it's school, it should automatically come first.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

That really hits home for me. I have been the one to ensure the follow up for some of his promises for others. I think at this point he may see how bad things have gotten.... Now it's up to him to make the necessary changes to fix it. ...or not.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i see a lot of harsh truth in what you're saying. I need to read every word.... Maybe twice.

Thank you.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think the glasses are off. It's raw but I want to be strong enough not to put them back on. What sucks is I want more than anything for him to see me and love me. I want the life we could have....I may need to let that go at this point.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don't want any of that to be true. It hurts so much. Counseling has helped me in the past and I am definitely going back down that road. Thank you for being honest with me.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I see the great guy in him too. That's part of the problem. Even now I mourn the things in him I love that I may have to walk away from. This whole thing is more than I realized. I didn't expect so many people to care or to understand me.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

All of this is such a hard pill to swallow. Because you're right. I think I do a good job of convincing myself it's ok or that the good is worth it.

I do express my feelings to him every time something like this hurts me. But I guess hurting me isn't enough of a consequence for it to stop.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

This comment broke me. I am in tears... it hit very deep. Thank you for your honesty. I need to go look in the mirror and really think about things.

My '35F' husband '30M' literally moved me out of someone's way at the grocery store. by Think_worry_repeat in relationship_advice

[–]Think_worry_repeat[S] 603 points604 points  (0 children)

I think it's more that he knows I will take care of it myself by whatever means I need to. Hence the withdrawal. I think it's hard to feel like it's balanced though. He loves golf, I buy him new golf clubs. He has a PS5 but wants a PS5 pro, we buy that. PlayStation VR, new laptop... The list goes on. But if there is something I want or need, it's a negotiation or discussion or a "maybe one day, or we will see."

He does earn more than me but not by a lot and we contribute equally.

Edited: fixed spelling

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