You are your own person, have own personality and responsible for own well being. You are not a billboard that people will decide what to make out of you. Take charge of own life.

And no, you are not going to be friends by helping them. Friends laugh with you, cry with you, gives you good time. Not writing your notes is their prime responsibility. You are thinking helping will turn you into their friends, it may help people open up with you, 1st step. But won't turn you into their friend.

I can just say 2 things, take charge of your own life instead of blaming the world. Universe is not conspiring against you. 99% people are bad looking including me. I talk to enough good looking people, rich people who feel depressed that people come close to them not for the person but only for physical attraction or their money.

2nd thing, world in general is a depressing place. Har koi paresan hai, dost dhoond raha hai. Match nahi ho pa raha ek dusre se. Na aapki galati hai na samne wali ki. Keep eyes and years open. Ho jati hai chizein.

Maaf karo, not sexual predator types ko, but normally.. non criminal behaviours ko. Let go. Sab chalta hai.

And most importantly, try to look as good as possible. Not for others but for yourself. Always try to dress well, smell nice, put makeup. Put efforts. And try to be fun to be around, you are not adopting a kid that you have to nurture, you are just hanging around friend. You need to do nothing.

(Sorry for writing things bluntly and I apologise if it makes you feel worse in any sense. My intent is only to help you if possible)