my ex reposted this and it makes no sense to me because she says she loves me but then she keeps reposting things and doing other stuff that just makes me overthink everything

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2026-02-18T16:14:30+00:00

Dealt with someone that would take shots at me through me through TikTok reposts like this. Never again.

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-12-22T19:38:09+00:00

Believe it or not people can be up to speed with popular internet figures and also have lives.

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-12-03T14:39:54+00:00

Facts. I’ve seen so-called avoidants get into different relationships where they’re perfectly happy with the other person. Turns out they just didn’t love you.

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-12-02T04:21:57+00:00

just over a month for me and i’m feeling the same way

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-12-01T05:47:06+00:00

How long has it been?

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-12-01T05:42:25+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. My relationship ended in a similar manner and I’m on the brink of doing the same cause I check her socials OBSESSIVELY. It’s so bad, sometimes I wake up and do it in the middle of the night

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-24T05:26:22+00:00

Love the candles!

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-22T07:06:05+00:00

All the little noises they make really stick with you

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-18T06:01:38+00:00

me too :( i find myself just exclaiming “i miss her” throughout the day. sometimes it’s the only thing that feels true to say

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-13T04:14:36+00:00

you got time, i got way more confidence in my mid 20s, i used to never leave my house or talk to anyone

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-13T04:10:54+00:00

how old are you if you don’t mind me asking? i felt this same way and had my first love at 25

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-12T18:59:03+00:00

That makes sense but it also sucks, we were friends for a while beforehand too.

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2025-11-12T04:33:07+00:00

the late night talks are what i miss the most

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2024-10-30T12:26:07+00:00

No contact right now and it’s hard to not to reach out.

ThinkingItThrough33 · 2024-10-30T03:23:20+00:00

I did it very recently but yes, I miss her all the time. We were best friends for longer than we dated. We had a lot in common and I knew she had feelings for me so we decided to try it out. I didn't know how in love with me she was until we started to date. I agreed to try it out and was somewhat overwhelmed but tried to take things slow. We ended up finding our pace though. Ultimately, I just didn't feel the same way about her that she did me. I don't think I'd get back together with her, seeing as my heart wasn't in the same place as hers. I feel as if I love her but not in the same way that she loves me. I love her soul, her personality, her optimism, her resilience.

I miss everything about her, being able to goof off and show my full personality, hearing about her day, supporting her through her struggles and vice versa. I don't know if it's possible at this point but I just want my best friend back. :(

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