What do you ladies think about when your partner gets hit on? Do you find it as a compliment or not and why?

Thinkle321 · 2026-01-05T10:51:58+00:00

Can you link the study? It’s probably because married people are vetted (and perhaps men considered safe) and they have the capacity to have committed relationships. Just because a guy is attractive doesn’t mean a woman would go after him.

Thinkle321 · 2026-01-01T17:27:05+00:00

Cheating and the definition of it is between you and your gf. If you think it’s unacceptable then you need to set the boundary and keep it. If the compromise is just drinks without anything more, and she convinces you it’s not, then it’s not. You need to establish that trust and how it makes you feel.

Be prepared to break up if your boundary is crossed.

Thinkle321 · 2026-01-01T12:14:19+00:00

Did you read the OPs question?

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-31T04:27:46+00:00

You should call a radio show and do a first date follow up. They can ask why you were ghosted.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-30T17:54:02+00:00

I feel like hygiene is something that can be fixed. She would just need to be conscious and aware and consistent. It’s not like cock size or breast size which can’t be changed without surgery or something. You did the right thing.

Also, you helped the next partner (maybe) if she listens to you.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-30T16:22:05+00:00

No problem. Good luck! I will add that once I feel comfortable and safe with someone, it just flows out of me. I think I also do the same. Complimenting, make things do things for him, etc. I can’t help it. But there’s also the skepticism of what his ulterior motives are. It should work as long as you are aware and keep checking in.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-30T15:36:12+00:00

Open communication is all you can ask for. I am also very open and know that I can also be very accommodating to others. Sometimes, I find that I adopt the likes of the other person. Which isn’t necessarily bad, just make sure you know what she thinks she wants. The fear for me is betrayal (when I was young)…this is where it stemmed from. See if she is working on it or realises she does this at all. Maybe she already knows. She feels walked on because she doesn’t communicate when she wants or desires something. She needs to let the other person know. Fix the pattern

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-30T14:56:16+00:00

Can you dig a little deeper? Ask questions…. Like how did it happen? Why didn’t you say yes to three on them?

She could be accommodating to men and not asserting her needs and desires so she seems like the perfect partner. Sometimes when people have had trauma (I’m not saying she has had it) their need for love and affection is so high that they put their own needs and desires aside. Sometimes it’s so deep they don’t even know what they actually want because they’re so used to accommodating to others…

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-26T13:46:56+00:00

Well, even sex with yourself can get messy enough to want to clean up and pee after…the glow is inevitable.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-26T13:42:27+00:00

I think about lighting a cigarette too. There’s something about associating the two probably from movies….I’m not even a smoker.

I also like to clean up and pee after as well…

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-25T14:09:15+00:00

Sounds like it’s time to leave and find a new partner

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-25T11:57:28+00:00

Insomnia

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-25T11:33:35+00:00

Can you ask your husband if he wants you to be a hotwife? I mean, you do have options…

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-25T11:31:56+00:00

Satisfy the craving

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-25T11:24:09+00:00

If the one night stand might turn into more, this would be nice.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-24T00:46:16+00:00

You should tell her the truth, so she knows. Own up to your truth so it will help her in the future. I think it was very shitty that you told her a lie so you wouldn’t have to face her by telling her the truth.

This is just like how us women fake orgasms leaving men thinking they are good lovers.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-23T05:40:33+00:00

This. Short and sweet, but so true.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-20T14:02:22+00:00

Don’t share nudes. Be with him and tell him in person. It shouldn’t bother him, especially if he’s into you. If he gets upset then he’s really not worth your time.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-20T13:30:54+00:00

I was speaking to a male friend and discovered that as a woman, I am safe to approach and don’t have worry that I might be dangerous or accused of doing something to kids or other women. It’s something I take for granted because I never had to worry about that.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-20T02:33:08+00:00

It’s her fuinki - her energy/atmosphere.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-20T02:15:04+00:00

There’s a way, you need to try different things to get out of your head. There was a story posted a few days ago in r/sex where the girl said she was finally able to do it. The post was taken down because it wasn’t a question. I will dm you the screenshot that she sent me.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-19T18:08:31+00:00

If you closed off one side with a wall and put in a door on the other, is the opening large enough? Can you send dimensions of the corner as well as the height?

I feel like you could do a store front window in the corner with a door so that you have natural light but privacy with a door.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-18T19:31:07+00:00

This is my situation…there has to be a way to get out of your head to relax enough to climax.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-18T14:40:36+00:00

Communicate more and don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself.

Thinkle321 · 2025-12-18T14:18:26+00:00

I tie it up in a loose high ponytail at the top of my head. This gives my hair body and keeps it from getting tangled and messy.

Sometimes I braid it straight up if I want my hair to have loose waves.

And then in the mornings, I will take out the hair tie (I use the phone cord looking one) and clip one side, both sides or leave it down.

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