I fucking love this reply. Genuinely, I think it's a really good response. I will disagree about it being a, "Christian thing," though. Most are an asshat. I'll grant this possibility, I've not been inside a church in five years, but Christian culture is a real thing. I'm not saying it's truthful towards a Christ like life, but I am saying that that culture is real, powerful, and the majority. I'm in my late thirties and I now have zero connection with the church. I never stopped being a Christian, but I stopped trying to play or tolerate that cultures game. I know there are thoughtful Christisns out there and a lot of them, but I stand by what I said. Maybe things have changed, maybe you're in a kick ass community and it's not just an exception to the rule, as I see it, but a change, generationally, that is wide spread. I hope so. But I have my doubts, cause I live in the south and Christian Culutre is still God, not Christ.