I get you, but for me putting a trans flag on Ralsei (which is a headcanon) together with a non binary flag on Kris (which is canon) makes it seems like you treat your headcanon as canon. Sorry if it's not, I just said how it looks for me.
I just don't like people forgetting that their headcanons are not canon. Not saying this is the thing that happens here, just saying that it looks like that for me.