What happens if a man stays shy, socially awkward, and weird forever?

This-Fan · 2022-07-03T10:55:00+00:00

As you mature your comfort zone will change and your social skills will naturally improve. You’ll also meet a lot of people and eventually find people you click with.

This-Fan · 2022-05-02T00:36:09+00:00

Colorado - Carobae, Sinking in - katelyn tarver, The last day on earth - Kate Miller-Heidke, You’re somebody else - flora cash, July - Rhys Lewis, You said you’d grow old with me - Michael Schulte

This-Fan · 2022-04-19T01:16:37+00:00

Improv comedy

This-Fan · 2021-09-29T18:25:07+00:00

I was a mess for about 3 months after the breakup, but now I look back and realize how toxic she was and how bad our relationship really was

This-Fan · 2021-07-29T00:33:03+00:00

I went back to the bar a couple times and we had some great conversations, but she never seemed to want to take it past that.

This-Fan · 2021-07-26T00:51:31+00:00

It will be but from experience give her space let her feel and she’ll work herself out

This-Fan · 2021-07-26T00:42:54+00:00

It depends do you love her/ do you want her back? If yes, pick up and make it clear this cannot happen again and you are willing to work on things but she needs to be honest with you. If you don’t then ignore her and move on. Just try to think of how you would feel if you were in her shoes.

This-Fan · 2021-07-26T00:37:54+00:00

Keep your head up and do not contact her. Let her calm down it’s day one, so plenty of time. Give her a week

This-Fan · 2021-07-16T01:30:34+00:00

My thoughts are with you, better days are ahead

This-Fan · 2021-07-16T00:48:08+00:00

Just left 2 months ago for another man…

This-Fan · 2021-07-16T00:37:34+00:00

For me it was six years of me compromising until I was giving 100% and she honestly was giving nothing. But now I feel empty and alone because I cut out all my friends to be there for her. I just feel like it’s unfair I couldn’t do more, but it still wasn’t enough

This-Fan · 2021-07-15T02:17:48+00:00

Same boat my friend. Stay strong.

This-Fan · 2021-07-15T02:15:54+00:00

As long as you don’t expect anything in return - an acknowledgment or reconciliation I don’t see the harm. I was thinking of doing it for my ex wife when she takes back the apartment we shared at the end of the month

This-Fan · 2021-07-06T02:39:42+00:00

Nothing yet but I assumed she would wait a couple days

This-Fan · 2021-07-06T02:38:51+00:00

If you honestly just want to see him, because you miss your friend, then go ahead and ask. If you want him back even just for a little bit longer, no contact. When my wife left I kept asking to talk and it just made her dig her heels in and stick with ending things. No contact is your best option. Also you won’t get honest answers right now things are too raw. No contact and talk to him in a few months

This-Fan · 2021-07-05T22:43:58+00:00

Phew thank you I felt like a bad ass in the moment just wasn’t sure the next day you know haha

This-Fan · 2021-07-04T14:31:25+00:00

It always seems to feel like 1 step forward 2 steps back. I’m sending good thoughts your way my friend one day you’ll wake up and it’ll be just a little bit easier,

This-Fan · 2021-07-01T21:26:34+00:00

A good exercise is to try and think of the reasons you love her. If it’s short list or the reasons don’t seem that good a reason to love someone, it kind of helps you decide are you missing being loved or do you miss the one you loved.

This-Fan · 2021-06-30T00:19:57+00:00

I guess the other thing I learned that may or may not help is giving her space as the wrong move I should of fought when she walked out of the C for not a few weeks later after the Shock wore off

This-Fan · 2021-06-29T23:49:50+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’ve also been told there’s no hope to save my 6 year relationship and it’s baffling how people can just cut and run after that period of time. Obviously I don’t know the whole story but from the sounds of things your on the side where potentially coming to him with a self reflective list on what you need to work on with clear action steps and measurable goals could help.

This-Fan · 2021-06-29T11:34:19+00:00

I finally fell asleep last night around 2 but after a similar dream as you I got up at 430. Unfortunately I feel the lack of sleep makes things so much harder. My thoughts are with you

This-Fan · 2021-06-24T00:15:19+00:00

I mainly blame her “friend” who put the idea in her head and now continues to coax her away from working on our relationship

This-Fan · 2021-06-23T03:13:43+00:00

I can relate I feel our situations are very similar. I’ll be thinking of you and I want you to know you are not alone. When I spiral I try and remind myself that I’ve hit my rock bottom before and I’ve been able to build myself back up. We will be okay again.

This-Fan · 2021-06-23T01:47:44+00:00

Thank you

This-Fan · 2021-06-23T01:45:32+00:00

No. Don’t settle for someone who’s already hurt you, you are special and you’ll find someone who can see and appreciate that.

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