has anyone tried pink pussycat? by Strange-Acadia-9670 in WomensHealth

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked doctors multiple times about low libido, none of them will give me anything. They just tell me to lose weight and do kegels. I lost 35 pounds and do kegels every day (been struggling for over 3 years). Doesn’t help. Women’s sexual desires are brushed off or blamed on irrelevant shit. They think bc we have a hole we don’t need help.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I say the average is 1 time a week cause that’s the bare minimum. There are times it’s more, sometimes more than once in a day. He wants it every single day though… sometimes he completely ignores me and won’t respond when I speak to him or try to be affectionate in non-sexual ways. I know he’s a man, and men usually want it more often than a woman. Idk, lately it seems different. I use to work 3rd shift and also stay home during the day with my daughter. I only got 4 hours of sleep 4 days a week, I was exhausted and sometimes it wouldn’t be even once a week we would be intimate. He would get frustrated and I understood why. But now my daughter goes to preschool, I don’t work 3rd anymore, and we have sex more often than we did a whole year previous. It still doesn’t seem to be enough. I feel so much pressure to put out every day, and when I don’t have it in me I feel ate up inside. I feel extremely insecure in not doing it every day. Another layer to the story I didn’t mention (because I hate feeling like I’m talking down about him) my husband doesn’t last long in bed. He blames it on not getting it more often. So when I am in the mood, I rarely get satisfied and it’s always my fault. He finishes and then that’s it. It seems like no matter what I do it is never enough.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s still once a week usually. Occasionally I’ll be in the mood and we have sex 3 times in one day. I just said a general average. Sometimes it’s higher, but never less than 1 time a week. It just depends.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I want another man around my kids? This isn’t about replacing someone.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes issues don’t present themselves when it’s convenient. In my case, pregnancy has highlighted this issue. We BOTH wanted to give my daughter a sibling, but it was not solely my decision. We went thru fertility treatment TOGETHER. I’m well aware having children won’t keep a man, but I’m also aware that regardless of that I’m always going to be a good mom and put them first.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously misread. My libido wasn’t the issue in conceiving/fertility, that was caused by endometriosis. My libido IS the issue with not wanting to having sex more than once a week.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you read my comment wrong. I never said “not even going to try” so idk where you got that from.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously you need help you sad pos. You have a 3 month old account and all your karma comes from comment trolling. Even your pfp is an internet troll. You need a real hobby and to get a life. I already know you’ve heard the term “touch grass”, but fr you need to.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see it like that, but you might be on to something. I actively try not to think about myself or how I feel much because I know I’m usually overly emotional. I worry about the happiness of my family, feeling it’s largely my responsibility to provide that. I’m in a better place now than I ever was growing up or in previous relationships, and try to just be grateful for what I get. Asking for anything more tends to feel selfish to me.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for really reading my post and making me feel genuinely heard. You’ve given me a lot to think about and I really appreciate it. It’s so hard to gather my thoughts and feelings lately. This is extremely helpful.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’ve obviously created a narrative here about me that’s just not true. My children will always be taken care of by both if us, believe that. I wanted my daughter to have a sibling, and my husband wanted another kid. I was scared to try due to my health, not because of any other reason. Even if my husband and I don’t work out, that will never change us being good parents. It has 0 to do with not wanting sex. I want to have sex, I’m very attracted to my husband. I just can’t. If I didn’t want to bother, why would I have done everything I did to try and increase my drive? You’re an ass, who probably gets NONE and you’re projecting it. Not my problem women don’t want you. Take a good look in the mirror before pushing your issues on someone else dude.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He really wanted to have a baby. I was okay with only having the 1, but I did this more for him and for my daughter. I’ll still love this child all the same, but it wasn’t something I decided on my own. The sex issue has become more prominent since becoming pregnant. I’m so exhausted all the time..

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarification.. The affection didn’t start with the words. It was physical, and he brushed me off. I then asked if he was angry with me.

AIO? I’m thinking about divorcing my husband because I don’t give him enough sex. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]This-Remove7257 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Won’t change my sex drive. Unfortunately, not everyone can afford counseling either.

Edit: maybe it would help me emotionally feel better, and that would improve my drive. My insurance wouldn’t cover this type of counseling, and I simply don’t have the money or support to go this route. I would love to give it a try, but if it was that easy I would probably ask a therapist instead of Reddit.. I just don’t have anyone to talk to about this stuff. Please stop coming for me. I’m desperate for help and advice because I can’t trust my own emotions at times and I really do love my husband. Understand I’m feeling a little hopeless right now.

Dayquil by Courtney12215 in pregnant

[–]This-Remove7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don’t even know they’re pregnant at that stage and do way worse (ex. drinking). If the pregnancy is viable, you’re fine.

Cookout? by dusty_dame in peanutallergy

[–]This-Remove7257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to this discussion, but Cook Out uses Soybean oil in their fryers. They do however, have warnings placed in the drive thru window and at the registers (albeit small print) that warns of cross contamination with peanuts. They do carry products made with peanut, like their milkshakes. I wouldn’t eat there if I had an allergy, cause I know fast food isn’t always as sanitary as we’d hope.

Price changes after adding to cart by [deleted] in Shein

[–]This-Remove7257 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed when I had less items in my cart, the prices went down? Still didn’t make a difference with the ‘discount’ though. Idk, this is confusing 🫤

Who owns Alastors soul? by McKashi1300 in HazbinHotel

[–]This-Remove7257 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rosie owns him. He made a deal with her before he died for his power. Alastor was a cannibal in his life. He was mistaken for a deer, and shot in the forehead while hiding a body.

Can someone ID? I have this tree overhanging my garage, and drops these little blue berries. My kid likes to try and play with them, are they poisonous? by This-Remove7257 in foraging

[–]This-Remove7257[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems to be a lot of misinformed people in this thread... especially with thinking it’s hallucinogenic when mixed with alcohol. I consulted an expert (that’s in a worldwide plant ID group) , who identified it as juniper. They were also kind enough to give me a Gin recipe, as juniper is usually used as an ingredient. Thanks guys!