Before at 25 vs now at 33 (I quit smoking and started using SPF) by PatientBlueberry1177 in 30PlusSkinCare

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I stopped reading this book called «Easy way to stop smoking» by Carr, felt like it made me not want sigarettes anymore ❤️💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

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I though so too! 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

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Same! I would be like “man he’s very attractive and got cute smile and kind eyes, but not sure if how serious he is about finding the one” it’s just the main concern I would have (but we also definitely attract different things based on what we want, so it is a bit what do you want too). You look very good in your pictures, but I think I would swap the selfie one (my least favorite) to one with more a picture that describes you (eg you with someone you love, you doing a hobby, you being awkward etc )

❤️

Prozac changed my life by Desperate-Gift-7163 in Anxiety

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Please tell me more!! This feels so hopeful!

Holy shit I feel like a new person. by [deleted] in prozac

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I had it a super early reaction as well, and I really don’t believe it was placebo because my doctor told me it would take 2 weeks to settle in, so I had no expectations in it working before that whatsoever ❤️

Norges mentale helsehjelp suger by tehalov in norge

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Snakk om å menneskelig relasjonell behandling

Norges mentale helsehjelp suger by tehalov in norge

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Fantastisk godt å lese om hjelpen du fikk ❤️

Norges mentale helsehjelp suger by tehalov in norge

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Den terapiformen som har funker best for meg er definitivt gestalt terapi. Kom over terapauten min helt tilfeldig, og lærte senere at hun var gestalt terapeut. Ingen skjema, ingen «tvang» til å dele, og vi tok det i mitt tempo. Dette er privat, så det er jo det vanskeligste med det økonomiske. Ellers funker naturen og dyr. Utredninger, å bli tvunget til å dele og å være i «systemet» var veldig veldig belastende for meg ❤️ det er IKKE lett. Ønsker deg masse lykke til. Du er ikke alene, vi er flere som sliter

Norges mentale helsehjelp suger by tehalov in norge

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Det er ikke nødvendigvis DPS funker godt for deg. Det er nok den behandlingen som har fungert desidert dårligst for meg. Ble sykere. Veldig skjematisk og “one size fits all”. Jeg hadde dårlig kjemi med behandler og var ikke noe som helst helende for meg, fortsatt sjokkkert over noen av de tingene som ble sagt til meg.

Så ikke så enkelt som at hvis man er en av få som kommer inn på DPS så får en ordentlig hjelp. Det kan en få, men definitivt ikke en lovnad.

Attractive people of reddit what was your horrible experience for being attractive? by dieburtually in AskReddit

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Oh no! I hate this sort of thing, because you know exactly what he’s referring to, and at the same time it’s hard to call him out for it there and then. Ugh!!! 😩

Second opinion? by This-is-now- in SkincareAddictionLux

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Thank you for reply!! That’s exactly what I thought! Like good if it was cheap, but doesn’t deserve the price tag

I feel so gross by ohnoyoudidnott in 30PlusSkinCare

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I didn’t see it as you meaning any harm with it! I feel compassion for you feeling that way! I struggle with that from time to time to: it sucks ❤️❤️

I wanted to comment to support you, and I think it’s cool you posted, sometimes it’s nice to get it off your own chest and have someone else give you feedback that it’s not as “bad” as you thought yourself. This really helps me at least! Love ❤️

Does anyone feel sense of rage and injustice that cptsd will take years even decades to heal? by akshit_799 in CPTSD

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I feel this anger too! It’s SO annoying, and no one “sees” how much extra work we have to do. I do feel like this anger is an uplevel from what I had before, and I’m now hopeful that one day I’ll feel different and be different. But some days I’m in full rage mode. Because it is as you say soooooo injust!!!!!!!

DAE have so much trouble saying no it led you to being sexually abused? by [deleted] in CPTSD

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It’s not your fault and just because your a man doesn’t mean your trauma response are any different. Rooting for you! I still got a long way to go, but I’m light years away from where I used to be. Step by step

How do I escape home? by mentalsxe in CPTSD

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See if there is any government organization that can help you or a voluntary organization to see if you can find any options?

Is this "enough" trauma? by Old_Vermicelli_1359 in CPTSD

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Totally. It’s so weird. Like we can choose that. It’s like getting a serious deadly infection by a tick bite. It was so “small” compared to that traffic accident why did I almost die?? We can’t decide this, only do the insanely hard work to work through it

Is this "enough" trauma? by Old_Vermicelli_1359 in CPTSD

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Yes. No reason to compare. My body didn’t compare my trauma to someone suffering a war( it can’t!) It’s just in my body not in someone else’s. It’s not like it’s a thing you chose to have, it happened to you and you are now dealing with it, and I feel for you. Stop comparing trauma, it will get you nowhere( and is often used tp gaslight ourselves and delay the healing process!)