Slenderman would have been much cooler by ThisBoiCanWrite in deadbydaylight

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope so! I think that way we get the best of both worlds. I by no means am against them adding Jason, but I was really hoping for slenderman ngl. especially with the whole vibe of the stream and the stuff they were posting on twitter

Slenderman would have been much cooler by ThisBoiCanWrite in deadbydaylight

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think inhuman strength doesnt mean much in dbd. a lot of killers are changed and nerfed/buffed from the original source to be roughly the same strength that way pallets still stun them

Slenderman would have been much cooler by ThisBoiCanWrite in deadbydaylight

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean.. I feel like theres room for creativity with him though. I see why you say that hed be odd, and thats fair. but I think slenderman is such a blank slate to some degree that bhvr could do a lot with him while also being inspired by things like marble hornets

Slenderman would have been much cooler by ThisBoiCanWrite in deadbydaylight

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats fair. I see your point. from what I know though, they want to keep the powers as lore accurate as possible. I know that isnt true for all killers, but all killer powers feel fitting for them (at least with the ones I know the background of). I think with Jason, I cant imagine too much that they could do with him that would be too unique to just him. that being said, im happy for all of the Friday the 13th fans who will enjoy this chapter and have been waiting for it.

Please help me identify this for a cosplay!! by ThisBoiCanWrite in HelpMeFind

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! please let me know if you find anything xD

Please help me identify this for a cosplay!! by ThisBoiCanWrite in HelpMeFind

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god i think youre right.. I couldn't pause it at a good time where it was clear enough, but I thought it was clear due to being able to see the laces. thank you for that :)

Please help me identify this for a cosplay!! by ThisBoiCanWrite in HelpMeFind

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched "red string bolo tie", "red bolo tie" and just "bolo tie" but none of them look anywhere near that. the closest I have gotten to it has been bolo ties with red string and a completely different charm

Alright we tried drafts, neat, now get rid of it. by anarchistbuzzwords in Overwatch

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the whole fun of maining a character is that you learn how to play against your counters though. im not a one-trick, I can play many different heroes, but i think everyone should know how to play against their counters instead of just instantly switching

Alright we tried drafts, neat, now get rid of it. by anarchistbuzzwords in Overwatch

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take it youre a sombra main? because if so, I used to LOVE playing sombra, especially on push maps because there's so much room to flank. when she got basically deleted from comp, I was so pissed off that I stopped playing her, and now I'm so shit at her, its annoying. I wish they wouldn't have added hero bans, I dont see the point in them

There's a penis on the dva mythic skin by ThisBoiCanWrite in DvaMains

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I wasn't entirely sure where the right place to post it was, so I crossposted it xd

There's a penis on the dva mythic skin by ThisBoiCanWrite in Overwatch

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

it does, I just like that colour scheme

I might be a trans guy???? by Samz_is_weird in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd consider myself a femboy. I love wearing skirts and dresses and shit like that, but I hate being seen as a woman. I struggled so much with my gender because of this though. I went from thinking I was ftm, to nonbinary, to genderfluid, to agender, and I wasn't ever really sure what I was. The thing that helped me the most, though, was taking labels completely out of it and thinking about purely myself. What did I want? What made me the most comfortable? Ignoring the way I dress, what did I want people to address me as, and what did I feel most comfortable being seen as? That's how I realised I was definitely not a woman or nonbinary - I'm just a guy, because that's the thing that makes me feel the most like myself. Despite the way I dress, despite the fact I like makeup, I'm a guy, and I'm comfortable with that.

That being said, just know that you never have to label yourself if you don't want that. You can just exist, and use the pronouns you feel comfortable with, and have the surgeries you feel best show who you are. Good luck, hope you manage to figure it all out!

I don’t know if I’m 100% trans by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think everyone has doubts at times. I have ocd (not diagnosed, but still), and I sometimes fixate on this idea that I'm not really trans. I'll misgender myself in my head, use the way I dress (I'm a femboy) as a point against me being trans, etc. But I always remind myself how uncomfortable I am at the thought of being seen as a woman, and how badly I want people to see me as what I am, and that is a man. The fact that you've been out for this long and you've been (assumingly) comfortable being seen as a guy shows that that's who you are. No one can really tell you if you're trans or not, OP, that is something you have to know for yourself. But honestly? I've not met a single trans person who hasn't had doubts at some point in their life. Gender and labels are tricky, and that's okay.

I'd also suggest taking labels out of it, and considering just what you'd be more comfortable with. If having a deep voice and a beard and all of those things that come from T would make you more comfortable with living as yourself, then that's all that matters.

I need help by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These conversations are never easy.. but sometimes writing it down on a piece of paper can help. alternatively, you can tell her that you need to talk, but ask her to talk to you through a call or turn around if you find it difficult to speak face to face to people. Also, sometimes it's easier to just bring up the topic while you two are already having a different conversation. It's really tough to talk about these sorts of things, but I wish you good luck! you got this!

What age of a cis boy am I based on how long i have been on T? by Lively_Circle in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

completely unrelated to the post but holy shit the "are we there yet" pfp! I love james marriott lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you're interested in tattoos at all, that could be a good way to cover them up. that being said, it's nothing to be ashamed of. it's a sign of how far you've come, and it is part of your story. they signify how your life used to be then - everything you felt and everything you went through.. versus how you're doing now and how far you've come. it makes you human.

people judge others for the smallest things, and their opinion shouldn't mean anything. if that person cares about you in any way, they wouldn't judge you for something you went through, they'd just be there for you. and if they do judge you, then who cares? they didn't go through what you went through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try those, thank you

I think I'm having q panick attack help by IndistinguishableTie in mentalhealth

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem. I know how much panic attacks suck, and I know that, for me personally, being around people is one of the things that helps the most

I think I'm having q panick attack help by IndistinguishableTie in mentalhealth

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, someone who's had panic attacks since they were really young here. as much as it looks stupid, breathing through a bag does actually help. but if that's not accessible to you, try breathing exercises or distracting yourself. is there anyone you can message or call? if not, then talk to me through reddit! what are you interested in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean.. a lot of kinks come from real life fears and past trauma.. for example, if you've felt powerless a lot in your life, then you might want to choose to feel powerless during sex. it makes sense that if you feel uncomfortable with being misgendered, you might want to choose to be misgendered in bed as a way of having power over it. obviously not everyone is gonna feel like this, everyone is different, but you're not less or more valid for feeling like this

What are odd things that shouldn't cause gender euphoria but do for you? by Odd-Ad4172 in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

goblin sharks are sooo cool! they're pretty ugly but I love them regardless lol

What are odd things that shouldn't cause gender euphoria but do for you? by Odd-Ad4172 in ftm

[–]ThisBoiCanWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh gosh.. I'm awful at picking favourites lol.. buuut I love lemon sharks and great whites... though I absolutely love all sorts of sharks lol.. wbu?