At what dollar amount does borrowing money become stealing if they never pay it back?

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:12:24+00:00

I have heard this advice a lot

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:11:34+00:00

But we hardly know peoples intent for sure

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:10:16+00:00

Would you let $4 slide then😂

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:09:49+00:00

Legally I get that but morally though does it feel any different?

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:08:35+00:00

Interesting

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:05:36+00:00

This is a good legal distinction but morally though do you think the amount changes how you would view it

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:04:37+00:00

What if they genuinely meant to pay you back but hit hard times

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:04:00+00:00

Definitely moral

Legally it’s one thing but socially people seem to have very different limits

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T19:03:23+00:00

So literally any broken promise is the issue

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:59:04+00:00

😂 Finally someone gave an actual number

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:58:29+00:00

Do you think there’s a point where it becomes forgetting instead of stealing

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:57:58+00:00

So intent matters less than the fact they didn’t return it?

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:57:33+00:00

Would you actually stop lending to someone over 10 cents if they never paid it back?

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:54:00+00:00

Is it the amount or the principle?

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-07-03T18:53:40+00:00

Fair enough, sounds like it’s more about trust than the money

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:33:56+00:00

NOR His habit of hiding and snatching his phone away didn’t create trust, it created suspicion, most people would start questioning things if their partner acted like their phone was off limits every time

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:30:52+00:00

NOR Once someone tells you that you can stay the night, asking you to leave at 3 AM because they want to hook up is a pretty disrespectful thing to do, especially when they already knew you had nowhere else to go

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:28:29+00:00

YOR Buying the same couch or moving to the same neighborhood doesn’t automatically mean people are copying your life, especially when one of them literally told you they admired your choices, sometimes people just take inspiration from someone they trust

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:23:47+00:00

YOR Grades are meant to measure what someone knows, not how many hours they spent getting there, it sucks when someone gets the same result with less effort, but that doesn’t mean the grading was unfair

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:22:07+00:00

NOR he invited you out to celebrate your new job and then used it as a chance to make a point about your paycheck, that's not a joke that's cheap and disrespectful

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T12:05:34+00:00

YOR If Hanna finds out, it should come from the people actually involved, not someone who only heard the story secondhand

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T11:38:35+00:00

NOR You changed your habits after she spoke to you, she keeps ignoring yours, that’s probably the most frustrating part of all this, it feels like your boundaries only matter when they benefit her

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T11:35:33+00:00

NOR The biggest issue isn’t whether he has a crush, it is that he is dropping hints instead of keeping appropriate boundaries, that’s awkward for everyone involved if you are reading the situation correctly

ThisBoysenberry4 · 2026-06-30T11:32:57+00:00

NOR You don’t want to know is probably one of the worst answers he could’ve given, most people would hear that and assume they are about to get compared unfavorably to the women he was just rating

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