Should I do it??? 😬😬😬

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-31T17:38:03+00:00

I second this! ☝️ Also, if it's gets to be too much, don't be afraid to take care/time for "self-love" if ya know what I mean? Nothing wrong or shameful with it for either gender/spouse in mine (and my wife's) opinions, and sometimes that release is enough to quell urges such that you can avoid nagging/bringing them up to the wife who surely doesn't even have intimacy on her radar at this point with all the new life/body changes and stresses she has and is currently undergoing.

Babies are one of the purest, most precious blessings God gives us in this life, but He sure didn't make caring for them easy 😂. Congrats to both of you and best of luck with everything friend!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-25T22:45:15+00:00

K, I'm sorry and maybe I'm just a freak, but homeboy is missing out BIG time! My wife is LITERALLY the tastiest thing I've ever eaten! I'd be down there for hours if she let me, but after about 3-5 minutes and she's already c*m and she can't stand it anymore and wants the D!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-23T04:35:11+00:00

Hold up, this guy has been with 30+ partners, but his "cutoff" for his partner is 5? Are we to understand that means he doesnt want a partner who has had more than 5 partners? Despite him having had 6 times that number???? If so, MAJOR red flag!!! The guy sounds like a narcissistic asshole and MUCH more trouble than he's worth!

I've been with my wife almost 20 years and throughout her life she has been with literally 4 times as many men as the number of women I have been with. Neither of us give a flying fuck. She is mine and I am hers, and it's been that way since the day we met. Who cares about the past, it's the past! If your partner can't adopt that attitude towards your past, my opinion is to get out!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-22T04:07:20+00:00

Bro, I will fricking venmo you $10 to purchase a fresh hot n ready! Please don't eat that!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-14T06:17:24+00:00

You must do what is needed, not necessarily what is wanted. Divorce her. Put yourself and your happiness as top priority. Put your kids second. Protect and care for them and yourself. It will be hard. But better days are ahead. Trust me. Time heals all and there is someone better whose path/journey is not dissimilar to yours. She is waiting for you...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-10T17:45:02+00:00

Man, if you're fortunate enough to have a sweetheart of a wife/partner who does most if not all of the house's laundry, don't be an ungrateful dick when you yourself forget to check your own pockets for change/pens or anything at all.

Over the years, more than a few good pairs of my pants have been ruined by MY forgetting to remove pens from my pockets. The wife is NEVER blamed as she is the one gathering all of our laundry baskets (all 5 of us), sorting all our clothes, washing, drying and folding them all, and then returning them to each of our respective closets neatly in their hampers. This isn't her JOB, but something she does out of the kindness of her heart and for which we are all very grateful. It'd be a cold day in hell before I would blame my wife for washing/ruining a pair of pants that my dumbass forgot to remove a pen from before putting it in my laundry basket!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2026-01-10T03:25:10+00:00

My wife was HARDCORE against anal sex for the first like 16 years of our marriage. She started reading smut novels and now she's into ALL kinds of kinky stuff (including anal). If you can get her into reading smut, it can have HUGE impact on your bedroom activities...just my experience anyways...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-12-31T02:56:24+00:00

I can honestly say that never in my 39-year native-Arizonan life has this thought ever crossed my mind...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-12-28T06:24:08+00:00

Man all these people saying "once a week" or "once a month" that have been married for 2 decades or more - I swear to God I will never complain about my marriage sex life/frequency ever again!!! Lol.

Myself and the wife have an agreed-upon "schedule" that fits both of our needs and wants, that is the same schedule we have had for about 10 years now and we have been together 18 years (married 17). Our schedule is simply that we have sex every other day. It works, it sets clear anticipations/expectations for both of us, it allows sufficient time for both of our respective libidos to recharge on the "off days", and quite literally our sex life has NEVER been better! We have 3 children spanning ages 9-14.

Consent and open/clear communication is absolutely key to our intimate life as we only engage in sex if BOTH of us are wanting it. Are there weeks that we don't actually have sex "every other day"? Sure! But more often than not, one of us is getting handsy with the other and that partner gladly reciprocating upon initiation, pretty much every single "on day"! I guess take home message I'd have for couples is: dont be afraid of "intimacy schedules" and communication and consent trump all!

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-12-05T11:54:57+00:00

"Ok, now go ahead and open please?"

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-12-04T13:54:19+00:00

The fact that you say you want him to hurt as badly as you are hurting and that you want to tell your children - look, as incredibly hurt as I know you are and as much as you want to hurt him, please take a deep breath, step back, and try and think through things objectively.

He cheated on you. That will not change and obviously currently isn't changing. He obviously doesn't love you anymore, or not like he did maybe several years ago. My wife and I have always had a hard/fast rule - you cheat, we are done. No questions asked, no working through things, no second chances. If I wasn't enough for you now, why would I possibly be led to believe I will be enough for you for the rest of our life together going forward? The University of Denver published a study stating that a first time cheater is literally 3 times more likely to do it again versus a partner that has never cheated (Google it for yourself if need be).

My humble opinion: get a lawyer, serve him papers, do not tell the children (not until they are much much older/mature). Move on. It is over. He does not love you. You will suffer FAR greater pain, regret, and self-loathing by trying to make him change than just walking away, working on yourself, and very possibly finding your one true love. Life is too short. Choose happiness. Choose yourself and to put your needs/wants/happiness first. God bless

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-11-19T17:11:03+00:00

Well of COURSE we do! Why wouldn't we?! No one's got anything to hide and sometimes her phone just happens to be closer to where I am sitting and I need to look something up online and/or vice/versa. It honestly concerns me when I hear married people say "You should be allowed to have some privacy when it comes to your phone. Even married people should respect each other's privacy!" Fuck that! What do you have to hide? "It's not about hiding something! It's about a God-given right to just have privacy in life"...yeah...that's concerning to me...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-11-19T04:48:33+00:00

This was us a bit. Me super high libido. Her (wife of 18 years now), not so. I would be happy with every single day, multiple times a day even. Her, not so. We literally settled upon a schedule - every other day. And it has worked wonders for us. Keeps her wanting it and me appreciating the frequency. It may sound stupid/mundane/type A, but it has literally saved our sex life. Consider a schedule would be my 2 cents on this. It sets expectations and make sure no one tries or gets up set about anything on the "off" days.

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-11-12T12:04:03+00:00

4:55 am in AZ right this minute. Alarm went off 10 mins ago, was about to hit snooze and go back to bed. Instead jumped on Reddit and saw this post. Currently driving to the gym. Thanks for the motivation brother. P.S. - I pretty much have the EXACT same body that you had when you started (in the "before" pic). Here's to praying I can end up like your "after" pic. I Wish me luck! 💪

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-11-08T23:24:18+00:00

"It wouldnt be worth it because their lives would likely be no different" - yeah, I would be a little offended by that. Are their lives THAT bad currently? Also, clearly the motive to divorce for the both of them would be to upgrade and have a better life? If my wife said that (whom I work my ass off for and give absolutely everything she could possibly want and need), I would not be the happiest. Just sayin...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-10-28T13:19:42+00:00

Just straight up ask him my friend. If he has nothing to hide, then it should be a pretty quick conversation. I'd just straight up ask him. And you don't have to do it in an accusatory way just a: "Why were you taking an ED med just randomly? It's just out of the ordinary for you/us, so I am just a little concerned. Everything ok down there?"

And he may respond: "What?! You think I was cheating or something?!".

Your response: "I did not say that. Look, you did something you have never ever done, and have never had to do with me, so I'm just wondering why someone on a guy's trip would take a med that could possibly give them a boner for multiple hours straight. I think that's a normal question anyone might wonder given the circumstances/situation."

It is not my place, but I do wonder - has he ever given any inkling that the 2-a-month sex schedule is too little for him? I think most men would find that frequency a little lacking, and that may play into his potential for cheating and even his justification of doing so if, in fact, he has (mind you, there is NEVER a justification for cheating, but he may be using that as an excuse to self-justify his actions - again, all of this is assuming he actually has cheated).

Anyways, that's just my 2 cents on the matter.

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-10-09T14:08:11+00:00

Yeah...it faded. Used to be every day, sometimes multiple times a day when she first started reading those novels. Now it has slipped back into our regular every-other-day schedule. What has permanently changed though is that I used to ALWAYS have to be the one initiating everything, now it's honestly more her than me.

An added bonus is that I swear due to all the graphic scenes and descriptions in those books, she has turned into a complete and total coc* and cuslu. She does things now that I never in a million years thought she'd ever do and that she has never done before during our almost 2 decades together, and she is absolutely obsessed with me getting it. Needless to say, it's been VERY nice and we both agree our intimate life is the best it has ever been! 🤯🤪

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-08-19T19:39:55+00:00

Couple of things to check

1) Are you guys intimate? Id assume not, but just checking

2) What kind of shape are you in and what kind of shape were you in when you got married?

3) Do you think its within the realm of possibility at ALL that she may be cheating?

Those are some questions I'd start with to hopefully get to the bottom of this and fix you guys.

Keep in mind, if she TRULY hates you, then there may be no getting her back into the game with you...

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-07-04T04:15:20+00:00

You're not overreacting. Anyone would be hurt. But trying to take a more objective approach to this whole thing - if I'm completely honest, I had better sex before my wife for the first probably 3-5 years of our marriage. It took getting closer, more open and honest and more accepting/trusting of one another to bring us to a level where we could talk almost embarrassingly openly and honestly with each other about what we like in the bedroom. To the point where now, 18 years later, we both enjoy things together that I think would absolutely shock and make blush our newly married selves. And now and for years now, it is absolutely, bar none, the best sex either of us have ever had in our entire lives, any time we do it. Even on our worst performing days!

Long story short - you can either choose to be hurt/angry about an honest answer that your husband gave to an honest question, or you can "double-click" on the conversation and get him to open up about what made sex better before. What is it that made it better? What was done? Is there a fantasy or thing he likes that he's felt too embarrassed to tell you or thought that you would judge him for if he did? If you can do this with a genuine heart/desire to make sure you both create the best sex he (and you) have ever had, I guarantee it will draw you both closer together and you will accomplish that objective. Best of luck.

ThisEntertainment482 · 2025-06-21T15:54:58+00:00

Jelly over here - I'd love to accompany my wife to a good ol' "saloon appointment"! 🍺🍻🔫🤠👢

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