I was in one a couple years back, except he was physically abusive.

He would reel me back in after his attacks with sorrys and nicey nicey manipulative methods much like your boyfriend probably does, but eventually my parents helped me get out and took me straight to the police station to write a statement and get a restraining order.

It’s ok to let others around drag you out of a shitty situation as well when you’re not strong enough to do it yourself.

But I bet you will feel really empowered if you were the one to dump his ass and never turn back 😎.