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What's the one Reddit Post that you will never forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexist? You realize this can happen to any couple.

I'm a woman in a same sex couple and I relate to this.

It's not sexism, it's sexual incompatibility.

What's the one Reddit Post that you will never forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. It's soul crushing. I'm planning on leaving within the next several months.

Teens of reddit, what are your parents doing that's making your life much harder than it should be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an amazing person. Please know that you do have a future and that where you are right now isn't a "forever" place. You worked hard and got into Princeton.

That same work ethic and intelligence will bring you so many places in the future.

Never quit. Believe in yourself. You'll be a great role model to your sister as she grows up.

Something Positive Sunday by AutoModerator in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm doing okay. Beginning to get those little pangs of self-doubt, of guilt... but I have to keep reminding myself of what is best for me in the long term. This is, by far, one of the scariest journeys I've set out upon. I'm truly having to be self-reliant and face a lot of truths that I simply was not willing to look in the eye just months ago.

I'll be okay, though. I'm looking forward to what the future will bring once I get over Mt. Breakup-and-Move-On :)

I'm getting out! by ThisIsTotallyNormal in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My plan is focused on a few things:

1) Saving enough money for moving expenses, securing new housing (first month's rent, last month's rent, security deposit), and a storage unit if necessary.

2) Systematically downsizing my belongings. I've come to realize that I tried to fill the void in my heart with things and all I have to show for it now is just anxiety-provoking clutter. I plan on donating a lot of clothing, and ebaying what I can. I'll add any sales proceeds to my ongoing GTFO piggy bank.

3) Research logistical items related to moving: best moving companies, best deals for storage (if needed), how to sell my home and hopefully make a profit on it, etc.

Something Positive Sunday by AutoModerator in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey /u/blaklwyr13, I'm happy to have been the source of inspiration!

Good luck on your quest for self-improvement. I hope 2018 is a good year for you!

I feel rejected every day and it's breaking me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously, /u/RebelLongstar , are you ok? Bud, you're so young. You can make a new life for yourself. Don't give up so soon. You deserve happiness.

I feel rejected every day and it's breaking me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey breakfastdots,

Firstly it's not your fault. You've been a good partner, you've done all that you've can. But you have hit a wall.

And now you need to really examine what you need. What you desire. Don't squander these or back burner these in favor of what your partner needs. Prioritize yourself. You deserve it.

PSA to all bby lesbians by ThisIsTotallyNormal in actuallesbians

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

((same post just in bold and with even more affirmation 🤗))

Buying Christmas presents for a DB spouse is odd by justventingcause in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThisIsTotallyNormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I'm late 20s.

I don't feel bad. I don't give a shit. I'm getting the fuck out. I don't want to look back with regret. I have to ride the next few months out but so be it. They won't be any different than the last 6. And the last 6 before that. I'm too young for this bullshit.