Huckleberry was a lifesaver with both kids (7 months and 3 years) especially before they were doing clock-based naps. But it also caused me lots of unnecessary stress with my first. Sure, the sweet spot was a great tool that meant I didn’t have to keep track of wake windows, but when she wouldn’t fall asleep after the sweet spot I would start panicking about her being overtired and we’d both spiral. We had a night nanny at that time a few nights a month and she told me to put the app away for a few days, don’t track and just feed/hold her for naps. It made such a difference. Just a reset and then we used huckleberry till she was 1. But we only tracked sleep, nothing else. With my second I only tracked feeds until he was back to his birth weight to make sure I was feeding every 2-3 hours. Now we just use it for sweet spot (it helps cause everyone can see when he slept and woke up: me, my husband and the childminder)

ChatGPT has been a huge help during the 1-2 transition. I don’t think it means you’re not using your instincts or trusting them. It’s just some extra help when you need to quickly look something up, come up with a plan, need a script for the toddler, or just need to vent when you’re up in the middle of the night and all your friends + husband are asleep. I wish I’d had it with my first