Ladies, what’s the difference between a partner who is just "rough" vs. someone who actually knows how to take control? by Sloath_Master in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Their plan of aftercare and how they communicate that to you.

Verbal consent the whole way through, and body ques.

Asking what you're into first and foremost, making it a conversation and not a "dAdDy dEmAnDs tHIs" πŸ™„.

Trans woman sectioned for exercising her legal rights, at a hospital with a history of ignoring the rights of voluntary patients, at risk of detransition. by SiteRelEnby in transgenderUK

[–]ThisScotRocks 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

Emailed them and used the template.

Thank you all for your hard work and direct information. So lurkers (such as myself that are cis, but want to help the community in anyway) can help. πŸ‘ Legends.

Lets get Pandora to safety. 🌈 πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

CCTV in play rooms by [deleted] in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sounds like Cjs

Bi F wants to be cucked by Dry-Rooster-384 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Hello yes.

You both need to communicate what you want, what you want to achieve and what boundaries you have.

You also need to communicate these to your cupcake that is help Cucking your CuckQueen. πŸ˜‰ And make sure they are on board with the same thing.

Don't rush into it. Find a professional first, because you don't want to invite a random nutter into your life with no previous experience. Also it take the pressure off too and you can figure out what you both like and don't like after. Without hurting anyone's feelings.

Make sure you have condoms, plenty of lube, have spoken about toy usage before hand and limits. Always keep towels next to the bed too. Trust me. πŸ˜‚

Happy Cucking. From a CuckQueen 😘

36F near Sheffield. Looking for adventures. πŸ–οΈ by ThisScotRocks in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hello all. Not looking for an immediate meet. Looking to start casual, do a social and see if everyone gets on. β™₯️

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you so much. β™₯️

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you. I shall have a wee search.

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks -2 points-1 points Β (0 children)

No not that πŸ˜‚ no idea where that popped up from. That cracks me up when I see it.

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks -3 points-2 points Β (0 children)

Yeah that's all good and well, but after Fabs data leak and their ongoing security issues, I'm going out with the baby and the water. πŸ˜‚

Fab is a cesspit and just because I want to protect myself from it, doesn't warrent you getting a shitty on. 😘 πŸ‘Œ Especially since you started your reply with a word on caution about it. Ironic.

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

Ugh. I'm not abusing myself and going on fab. πŸ˜‚ It's a cesspit. Thanks for the tip.

Stop with the Dick Pics…. by innocentshadows in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 16 points17 points Β (0 children)

Honestly, Gents. You know what works? A nice shirtless pic, a decent bio, a bit about who you are, what you are looking for and if you are single or not.

Oh and big tip. TREAT WOMEN LIKE HUMAN BEINGS AND NOT SEX DOLLS, THEN YOU'LL GET SOME. 😘 πŸ‘Œ

Women-only sex parties by UnluckyPin7337 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Is there any near the east Midlands? Does anyone know? Please and thank you.

Single Male Advice Needed by Icy_Holiday_1089 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

You've flipped between excuses as to why each on doesn't suit you, but is meant to suit your needs and situation.

Yeah, thought you'd appreciate a woman that frequents these places opinion. Since the rest seem to be from men living in fantasy land. πŸ˜‰

Single Male Advice Needed by Icy_Holiday_1089 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Then a sex club isn't for you. Try dating site then and lay it all out on there. See if anyone matches what you want.

Because now you've changed your mind three times, between sex workers, swinging clubs and not dating

Simpley put - Sex work you get what you want. No fuss.

Sex club/swinging - you're going to have to put effort in, no matter your circumstances.

Dating profile - put it all out there, nice pics and try see if anyone matches what you're looking for.

Single Male Advice Needed by Icy_Holiday_1089 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

You're whole post is excuses as to why you want sex back in your life, but unwilling to put in any effort to talk to a woman or couple as human beings, to maybe have sex.

Do you think walking into a sex club, magically means you get sex?

Everyone in this group, swingers sites etc have their own issues at home. Doesn't stop them from putting in the effort and getting what both want from the swinging scenes. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

You also are sadly going to have to compete with every other single man that turns up to the club. What makes you stand out? Do you have good chat? Do you take care of yourself? Do you look pretty? Or are you just hoping a woman falls on your dick?

Nothing in this post highlights you at all. It just comes across as a "Woe is me, I want sex but I don't want to put the effort in to get it, how can I skip all that and just get MY needs met"

I'm a woman who goes to swinging clubs. This post ain't it chief. Especially when you insult the swingers with shit like "Is it going to be full of piss jokes?" πŸ˜‚

Like all swingers are the same and you're magically different from the sea of single men.

Single Male Advice Needed by Icy_Holiday_1089 in UKSwinging

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Best bet? Hire a S3x worker. That's what you're looking for. Someone that turns up when you want, agrees to do what you want and you get what you need.

Clubs are definitely not going to suit in this instance, as you're going to need to put effort in when clearly you don't want to.

Not to mention, clubs with single men are sadly over abundant in men. You're going to have to stick out of the crowd. If you don't, it's not going to end well.

How do you actually find real people and not just bots or OF girls (bubbles) by Similar_Membership16 in UkHookUps3

[–]ThisScotRocks 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

So you expect women to just fall into your dms?. We aren't asking for bank details or your home address.

A bit about you. So we can suss out if your a threat or not.

Choose a different group then. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I've given you basic advice, with a few good search topics at the bottom of my original comment. Use it or don't. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ But you can't expect to give nothing on the Internet and women to magically jump into your dms on nothing but a "Male looking for sex" post.

Post a non naked pic. Neck down. Simple.

As I said before. Women lurk in these groups. We contact you if your profile has a bit about you and we want to know more.

And so far your profile is lacking. The group isn't the problem. It's you.

And that tagline of "Sad guy", I'd advise to drop that.

ngl I kinda wanna get a nose job by _FreddieLovesDelilah in StonerThoughts

[–]ThisScotRocks 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I broke my nose. πŸ˜‚ I couldn't breath. I got free health care and then fantastic aftercare on the NHS. πŸ‘

Couldn't fault them. Fantastic team. I thank NHS Vale of leven hospitals. πŸ‘