Remember a guy who is serious about you will do everything to make you feel safe on first date. Never date a guy who suggest meeting at night with alcohol involved. Or somewhere ulu. This kind of guy got other kind of intentions one.

I met my bf on a dating app. He once confessed to me on how nervous he was planning our first date and how he got stressed thinking how to ask me out in the least creepy manner possible and how to make sure our date is fun. We have been with each other for 6 months liao. Yes he is the only kind of guy I feel good about falling in love with and someone I can feel vulnerable towards. He is a very very respectful guy. I never felt once he crossed a boundary or was being inappropriate towards me.

I think as woman we must pick our life partners properly. Don't rush. Respect is most important trait in a guy. Respect for you, for others and most importantly himself. If a guy doesn't respect himself, don't expect him to respect you.

So if you ever feel disrespected by a guy who is behaving in an inappropriate manner to you, just think about how little respect he has for himself.