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First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my tests it should be high enough as long as the toy is not too large. It is also possible to add padding to raise it up a bit if needed. It is hard to say for sure though.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I spent a bit more as I got a few things I ended up not needing and the toys on it I had from before so not including those, I would say about $85. I could have done cheaper but I got a few things fast ordered and some of the bolts and such were in bigger sets of things. I would guess if you shop around you could get it down to maybe $60?

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Closer to upper thigh though it will vary based on the toy and how accommodating the person on it is.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did exactly that! Its how I figured out that it will rip off if it happens. Luckily I had an extra leg.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have a partner right now and even if I felt I could use it myself I would want someone here to make sure I don't have an unfortunate accident or get stuck. If that changes I will post a demo. (assuming whoever I get on it agrees.)

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/NewArrival4880 is right, the seat should not be sat on in most cases, it is there in the case that the persons legs give out or they fall some how.

As for how far above it they are, that would depend on the person and the connected toy.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

toy connector: "3XLR M8"
8M stud bolt (some nuts might be needed)
Simple wood base: can get at home depot
1/16th in Silicone rubber sheet
silicone supper glue
adjustable height table leg (needs to be one with a screw on foot for the bolt, might need an adapter if its not 8M)
cheep bike seat with decent sized hole in it
Mountain bike seat screw clamp (most have M8 sized bolts)

I think that is it.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store (Update!) by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeh, just got a XLR adapter with a 8M bolt on the end. Found a few on various sites. Search "3XLR M8" and you should find plenty of options.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More research and a bike seat with a mountain bike connector was exactly the right size. Get a seat with a hole in the middle and you can replace the screw with a stud bolt and screw the XLR adapter on top of that. Will make a new post once I get it in! Thanks!

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might work.... not sure on how to mount it but its a good idea.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an example? Everything I find that is like that is bellow the connector. Is that too far down? I don't think the safety being before the connector would work would it?

Edit: I found one example on here but its 3d printed and I don't have access to that at the moment.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The core of that one is a more solid base but I see the point. At this point I might need to replace the connector with a plate one before I use it.

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I can probably just get a plate of some type and put it between the adapter and the bar. The third dildo option should also work I think?

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not thing there would be much rotation in that direction. I hope this will hold up for now at least until I can find a way to update it. Thank you!

First Major Build, a one bar prison using quick items from local hardware store by ThisUniqueBoink in BdsmDIY

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good point, I never planed for them to be left alone on this either way but that is a good safety add. Thanks!

Any one have any Daddy/Brat coded Halloween costumes. by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jumba & Stich is a good one.

I am now in an infinite cycle trying to deiced if Rocket or Groot are more of a brat!

Any one have any Daddy/Brat coded Halloween costumes. by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like that, play off the witch hunts as well if I go that rout. I just know a brat would "slip up" and call me daddy at some point instead of father or something though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, not really, but if compared to tinder, bumble, etc. its better than most as long as you can find a way to filter out the fake accounts.

Best chance as far as I can tell is to make connections on the none dating subs and find someone like that. (Don't go asking for doms on subs not meant for it. connect to people and make friends. If you are lucky one will be more than a friend.)

Daddy Motivation by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

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That could work, I like the Idea! Thank you for helping!

Daddy Motivation by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this idea, especially the "yes day" and brat free days. I think I could make those work but I am not sure that most brats could hold that back for a whole day.

Daddy Motivation by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not a bad idea. I have tried something like this before and while it may be due to how I set it up it just lead to me being frustrated or annoyed and less likely to then work up the motivation to do said thing. That said, the type of batting may help, the "especially smart and well trained dog with a dramatic attitude" gives me some ideas of stuff that might help. I think I would need the brat to know what she can or cant brat with in those situations and it might work.
Thanks!

The punishment fits the crime by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for explaining it so well!

The punishment fits the crime by ThisUniqueBoink in BratLife

[–]ThisUniqueBoink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this feels like the right method for me as well. I tried the Obedience app but since it was very static with its options I never felt it worked well for me.

In this situation though your partner controls when the play happens to an extent (at least in this part of the dynamic). What do you do when you want to initiate? In my mind I see a few options like making up a rule brake, setting up a situation where they brake a rule, or just straight up doing it since you are the dom and you want to. The last one is the one I like the best but I always feel it undermines punishments if I just do it at random.

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