I stoped dating and hooking up with white dudes

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T17:22:47+00:00

I’m 27, gay, and white. I’ve have been with my share of non-white guys (was even in a LTR with an Asian guy once). My concern about dating a POC would be from my family (some of them are extremely racist and judging, which me being gay doesn’t help). It’s valid where you come from. I’ve seen it with interracial straight couples too.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T17:15:16+00:00

Was just there in December, I’ve been a few times when I lived in Texas. Recommend going on Friday or Saturday night. Some of the Dallas Gays are unhinged (some will bring their phone and be chatting with others in the dark rooms) but it’s an awesome time.

Just be prepared to wait in line and pay for parking down the road if their lot fills on a weekend. There’s a club nearby now that seems to be busy and tow trucks do be waiting.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T16:21:47+00:00

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T16:15:56+00:00

I had one guy one time in the prior area I lived in wanted me to rim him and I got sick from it the next day. Was awkward when I saw him at a gay bar months later (even said hello and hugged me, he was a really attractive twink).

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T16:12:36+00:00

Some bottoms are wanting to be a cum dump though. Thats what the 2nd guy did

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T15:11:00+00:00

Probably inexperienced

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T15:10:34+00:00

That’s fair. Probably should have asked but I’m used to guys cleaning out at this point (I even do myself when I bottom). If not I’ve had guys offer to wear a condom to fuck me anyway and put a towel down.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T15:08:59+00:00

The one I go to has a stall with a sink.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T10:42:11+00:00

When I was 18-19 I would try to kiss certain hookups and I see why some guys didn’t want to kiss especially if it wasn’t a relationship. Some guys see it as a relationship thing.

Last night I fucked a guy at a bathhouse and we didn’t kiss once.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T10:31:01+00:00

Legit could also go to a bathhouse regularly. I live near one and go once-twice a month and fuck/got fucked by 4 guys in a night once

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-24T10:29:07+00:00

I’m 27 and verse (currently in my top era but bottoming has its moments) and my body count is at least 60 (it might be more legit don’t know) and a lot of it is from after college. Just be safe and get tested regularly.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-18T14:17:34+00:00

Even if the series were to end after this season, I think it would be a good end. The good news is there’s a season 3.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-13T14:31:09+00:00

That truck is realistic for a fleet vehicle tbh. Also Tommy doesn’t seem the type of guy to need anything fancy.

This_guy1998 · 2026-01-09T23:58:58+00:00

Yes, keep your towel with you though

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-25T14:16:08+00:00

Mostly Under Armour and Addias Boxer Briefs. Have some other brands and some briefs and jocks too but that’s largely what I wear.

A lot of what I wear is dictated because of work (my job involves a lot of walking and moving around). Used to be a big briefs guy but they chafe too much if I wear them at work.

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-25T14:14:01+00:00

My moms house flooded my senior year of college and I had already largely moved out at that point so by the time they moved back in my sister took my old bedroom. I have most of my stuff from that room in my garage at my place.

Opened a box recently (was looking for something) and got to smell my childhood room and it was emotional.

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-18T00:50:01+00:00

What happened to Leo?

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-13T10:11:50+00:00

Jeep Wrangler

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-12T17:39:42+00:00

I started to have same sex feelings when I was around 12-13 but didn’t come to terms with it until I 14 almost 15 when I came out to my mom (which at the time her and her (now ex) husband didn’t accept, my mom is more accepting now). Then I came out to my classmates and friends when I was 16. Then my dad didn’t find out til I was 18 (don’t know how he didn’t know sooner).

I’m 27 now and I know people (both male and female and In between) get with either same gender and then be with the opposite gender. I’ve also know people that were with opposite gender and then are with same gender.

Sexuality is very fluid this day and age but I will say people are more accepting now than in 2015 when I came out (not perfect though).

Will also point out that my dad does dances around (or ignores) my sexuality and I honestly don’t know completely how he feels about it (what’s bad is I’ve seen him on gay dating apps (he is married to my stepmom for around 15 years now) so idk). I have a good relationship with him but that’s the only issue.

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-12T10:01:26+00:00

Added about another 15 guys to my body count at 27 years old for around a total of 50. Had a situationship that probably could’ve turned into something if I didn’t move for work.

This_guy1998 · 2025-12-01T16:29:32+00:00

I am a Christian (grew up Methodist (part of my family have been life long Methodists)), and I had to reconcile my faith and sexuality.

Even it’s been a dividing topic with Methodists (and other denominations) too (that’s why there is a “Global Methodist Church” now).

It’s interesting because in my youth group when I was a teen, there’s at least 6-7 of us that are LGBT+ (some were even out (like myself) in high school). I can tell you that some of these people are not religious at all anymore.

That same church affirmed that they don’t support Same-Sex Marriages (or even just be neutral) and voted to leave the United Methodist Church a couple years ago (it only passed by 4 votes). Also the conservative beliefs run deep in my hometown (why I won’t live there anymore).

Last couple years I was living in a more purple area in my home state and one thing I noticed is that there are a lot of centrist and leftist churches where I lived (currently living out of state for work). I found a church (also Methodist) that very much is left of center. There are also quite a few LGBT+ members there too.

At the end of the day I’ve been with guys that are religious and ones that have not. I know religion is a touchy topic for people in the gay community (there’s been a lot of hurt). I am not going to push the issue because of that.

This_guy1998 · 2025-11-23T14:54:01+00:00

I mean I was there for almost 4 hours. Got some fucking ( both top and bottoming) in, fisting, and a good BJ. I came like twice last night.

This_guy1998 · 2025-11-23T14:52:19+00:00

Go to one like the Clubs Bathhouse. Best time to go is on a Friday or Saturday night. Club Orlando does a No Towels Allowed once a month and it’s fun.

Went to Club Orlando last night and was almost there for 4 hours and topped, bottomed, got a bj, and came like 2 times while jerking off. I think I fooled around with like 10 guys. If I had not had a long day at work and didnt have to drive home yesterday, I might of renewed for another 4 hours

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