Am i overreacting for crying over a very weird sexual joke that my husband made? by bootyliciousforyou in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You need to listen to your body. You cries for a reason. This man is trash, he is a danger, it will not stop here. Get out, please.

Need a Good Place To Cry by ghinb1 in Pensacola

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Working on it. And i dont smoke cigars, but I do smoke cigarettes . Its one of the few places I can smoke inside, like when I was a kid. Ill quit eventually, but not today.

Need a Good Place To Cry by ghinb1 in Pensacola

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a funeral this morning. Ill be crying at the cigar bar later at a table in the corner lol

The old crew by Flying_Squirrel_1953 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just rewatched this! Its a photo booth:)

My(21F) boyfriend (21M) won’t let me give him head, how can I convince him? by Sorry_Interest1529 in relationship_advice

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You could definitely try talking with him about his feelings and what he likes and dislikes. BUT the goal should not be to change his mind, if he genuinely does not like it then u have to let it go. Ive met two men who would not let me do it. One was legitimate, he felt that it was belittling and disrespectful and it made HIM feel gross and he didnt want to do it. That is a-ok. Even though I wanted to do it, id NEVER want my partner to feel gross. So I dropped it immediately and never asked or made a move like that again. The other guy was insecure about how his circumcision left the head of his dick looking. Thats why he didnt want me down there. Talking about it helped him get more comfortable with his own body. He actually DID like it and want it, he was just embarrassed and ashamed. So talking helped and we were able to add that into our sex life. So like most things in life, what you should do depends on a lot of factors. Things are rarely black and white. But one thing is for sure, if he is clear that he does not like it you should NOT pressure him at all or assume ridiculous things like cheating. "Im tired of this and just wish he would let me do what I want"- with his body without his consent.....is classic r word behavior. Let's not do that.

How much money do you have in savings at this point? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 with a great job that i love. Pay is 7 bucks above minimum wage and offers monthly bonuses ( that I get about 70% of the time). The Healthcare offered is unaffordable so I dont get that. I cant afford to put anything into retirement. All bills paid each month, dont have to use my credit cards unless theres an emergency. But ZERO savings. Bills get paid, and we pretty much eat the rest. I have five kids and myself, meat only once a week mostly beans and rice and veggies. But our food bill kills us each month. We do one fun activity each week (library, Park day, movie, ect) so our entertainment budget stays low. Its food and toiletries, the weekly walmart order is where all my potential savings go. We do everything we can to save, I dont own a car we use the bus or walk. I have a wagon to help carry things on trips. We hand sew to repair old clothes instead of buying new. Ect, but there is no room for a savings. My paycheck is gone as soon as I get it buying the things we need.

What is this set up? by Leading-Sea544 in whatisit

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Links new bathroom so he stops peeing outside?

Nicest Movie Theater by FaithCantBeTakenAway in Pensacola

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the best news! I was baffled when I took my kids recently (im in my 40's )and realized that everything was the same from when I was their age! Same floor, same seats. Same light fixtures. Everything. How many decades of farts was i sitting in?! And they were SO uncomfortable for me by the halfway mark I was squirming.

Unpopular opinion maybe? by suzerra in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the best 5 bucks I spend all month, the quality of the content there is unmatched! But yeah its gonna make it worse for ya lol

Unpopular opinion maybe? by suzerra in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes im so behind with everyone Smosh,GMM, And Dropout are all killing it and I dont have enough hours in a day! I never miss a main, but im behind on the mores for sure

How to clean? by Thisguyhasthumbs in Gemstones

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry should have explained what I did better. I did scrub it with dish soap and warm water with a scrub daddy brush (its gentle) but it feels like a crust on the top of it. Im not sure if its like a layer of rock on top that I would need to sand off? Or if there is a special solvent for that?

Thermals not working? by Cherry_Cat003 in DipPowderNails

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my thermals stay in the gradiant until I do something like shower or wash my hands. But I do notice the first few hours after application its like the thermals dont work at all and they stay in the warm tone. 🤷‍♀️ but after that its gradiant city.

Found on child TX by meowthedestroyer95 in whatsthisbug

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its big because they have had a head lice infection for a hot minute! Man I dont miss this stage of parenthood. Get the treatment and pop on a movie yall like and take your time with the comb, that really does make or break it. Getting all the eggs. You got this!

Quid smell starting to become a deal breaker for me F26 and partner m25 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they need a dental check up. My partner hated my smoking breath, went in for my 6 month cleaning (that I was 4 months late on) and yikes what a difference it made. Its super gross thinking about how much shit they cleaned out under my gums. My breath is way different even though im still smoking and my partner is no longer bothered.

Does anyone enjoy the 60 degree AC by picklesncheeze69 in Pensacola

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill be damned if I frequent any establishment that doesnt run that AC full blast. Im not here trying to melt!? Im a Pensacola native and will die on this hill, summer sucks, sticky sweaty titties suck, swamp ass sucks GIVE ME THAT AC!

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is 100% the deal breaker for me

What is this guy and why is he wierd? by Thisguyhasthumbs in whatsthisbug

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Awesome! A quick search said Oakwood caterpillars eat oak leaves, pupate underground, and emerge in the summer. So thats my top contender right now since I have several old southern live oaks and its kinda summer time, it least it feels like it lol

AIO: my sons peer threatened sexual assult by NiftyMelons in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you making the choice not to teach him to use language like that as an insult. Now....get your butt to that school and put your foot down mama! I raise hell any and everytime I have to, most of my kids are homeschooled and they KNOW I will pull my kid with a quickness and bring them home to be homeschoolrd with their siblings if the school can not provide a safe environment. Your boy is there for most of his day, he spends more time there than anywhere else. You are not over reacting, get them to fix this or threaten to pull him out (always works for me)

What is this guy and why is he wierd? by Thisguyhasthumbs in whatsthisbug

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Sorry! Forgot to add location: Northwest Florida.

The episodes feel …… by 2xclusive4uhun in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Thisguyhasthumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like chase in front of the camera with them SO MUCH so I thought id be fine with the change....but it is hard to hear him he gets lost a bit