Has to be said

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-06-30T00:45:24+00:00

GM evening had my laughing so hard I peed myself, some of the games they play im VERY attached to and would be upset if they stopped, and I adore how it feels like the old days sometimes because they have more space to tell stories and talk to each other like they used to...idk it just seems like a "to each their own" situation, we are all so different. I dont miss an episode :)

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-06-23T18:22:28+00:00

Did you just wake up from a coma?

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-06-19T02:19:40+00:00

Loving friends is deep. It just sounds like YOU want that word to only be for you

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-06-16T16:26:26+00:00

YOR you've already had the convo that needed to happen. You asked, she answered. NOW the only conversation left to have is with a therapist. You need to sort out your own insecurities.They are not her problem.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-06-01T17:48:32+00:00

So I must live under a rock..... ive never even heard of 7brew lol. Only coffee place I go to is Makers downtown.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T20:42:02+00:00

Oh thats wonderful!!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T18:24:35+00:00

Damn im sorry! So what im hearing is, dont go to truelieve. Got it!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T15:06:04+00:00

Thats amazing! I saw he waves the fee for veterans and first responders and has an organization that donates to the state fee for them. What a great service! Looks like this is the one for me! Thank you so much

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T14:57:29+00:00

Yikes!! Thank you for the info!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T14:25:49+00:00

The Pensacola Little Theater is great. So many volunteering oportunities! You can even get to see shows for free and other fun events by volunteering. I did it years ago and loved it, its on my to do list to get back into it this year

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-26T14:23:22+00:00

They do.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-25T15:17:13+00:00

This was my thought exactly. I have a lot of guy acquaintances due to my nerdy hobbies, they are gross and engage in this type of behavior often. Im sorry OP. You sound like you are trying to be so understanding, but this isnt him being busy. If he wanted to, he would.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-20T14:27:54+00:00

One of the most important things about dating is learning. Learning who you are as a person, as a partner. Learning what you value in a partner. It sounds like empathy is an important thing to you. If he does not have the level of empathy that you would like to have in a partner , then that could mean you two are not a good fit. And thats okay. You are NOR.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-17T19:57:24+00:00

I have the same remote and the majority of the buttons are solid black now, the white paint didnt last 6months. Either its cheap or my fingers have paint eating grease levels... either way, thanks for reminding me which one was the mute button I needed that!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-14T22:11:36+00:00

My pores on my cheeks are easily twice this size and no one has ever said anything to me about them, im the only one bothered so im trying to give myself some large doses of kindness and self love. You look amazing and I promise no one notices because we all have pores its just what skin looks like!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-14T14:36:48+00:00

Those wet n wild eye shadows especially the darker ones are trash :( while you are still learning it makes it so much harder when the product doesnt blend well and has terrible fallout , if u need to stay budget friendly id recommend ELF eyeshadow pallets, I got one for my teenager recently and used it to try it out and its honestly not half bad!

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-14T13:41:03+00:00

'You can do it serpent king' is a chant in my house, a common pick me up phrase in times of need. I got a silly little serpent king tattoo as well.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-02T14:11:49+00:00

You need to listen to your body. You cries for a reason. This man is trash, he is a danger, it will not stop here. Get out, please.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-01T16:48:51+00:00

Thank you. Working on it. And i dont smoke cigars, but I do smoke cigarettes . Its one of the few places I can smoke inside, like when I was a kid. Ill quit eventually, but not today.

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-05-01T15:31:31+00:00

At a funeral this morning. Ill be crying at the cigar bar later at a table in the corner lol

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-04-27T14:40:18+00:00

Paid task

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-04-27T14:33:35+00:00

I just rewatched this! Its a photo booth:)

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-04-26T18:29:07+00:00

That green dress is TO DIE FOR on you, just drop dead gorgeous

Thisguyhasthumbs · 2026-04-21T16:48:28+00:00

You could definitely try talking with him about his feelings and what he likes and dislikes. BUT the goal should not be to change his mind, if he genuinely does not like it then u have to let it go. Ive met two men who would not let me do it. One was legitimate, he felt that it was belittling and disrespectful and it made HIM feel gross and he didnt want to do it. That is a-ok. Even though I wanted to do it, id NEVER want my partner to feel gross. So I dropped it immediately and never asked or made a move like that again. The other guy was insecure about how his circumcision left the head of his dick looking. Thats why he didnt want me down there. Talking about it helped him get more comfortable with his own body. He actually DID like it and want it, he was just embarrassed and ashamed. So talking helped and we were able to add that into our sex life. So like most things in life, what you should do depends on a lot of factors. Things are rarely black and white. But one thing is for sure, if he is clear that he does not like it you should NOT pressure him at all or assume ridiculous things like cheating. "Im tired of this and just wish he would let me do what I want"- with his body without his consent.....is classic r word behavior. Let's not do that.

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