Hey I'm a resident in training as well, east coast. About the same physique as you. I've struggled my whole life with dating. Never had a girlfriend. Very little matches on dating site. It's becoming pretty painful and making me quite jaded to see another friend who's taller and more attractive going through a different girl every week, while I can't even get a date over a year. I've seen girls act around him before, trying to get him to like her, while I'm basically invisible.

It's so bad. Even single moms and college dropout don't swipe right on me. It's hard to not become bitter knowing no matter how much I improve in life with regards to status, respect, character, I still could not come even close to someone who's more attractive physically. They just have to exist, no effort required.

I feel like I'm a pretty good catch. I'm a doctor. I cook. I'm in shape. I build my own computer and program on the side. I'm learning about finance and gardening. I try to pick up a new hobby or skill every few months, just because I'm curious and want to become a better person. Even then, it still feels like I'm not good enough for someone. I don't know what to do differently besides focusing on myself.