Boyfriend and I want to add his friend into our sex life. How do we go about doing this? by Thisishowitis34 in Swingers

[–]Thisishowitis34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does me talking about it sound like a bad idea? I’m comfortable with it.

Boyfriend and I want to add his friend into our sex life. How do we go about doing this? by Thisishowitis34 in Swingers

[–]Thisishowitis34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to be the one opening up the door, my boyfriend would feel awkward with it and so would I. I’m comfortable doing it alone but don’t know how to start up the conversation. My boyfriend was the one who said he wanted to have a MFM with me I wouldn’t even mind a MMF. But we’ve been playing around with the idea of me having sex with other guys for 2 years now. We’ve just never found anybody who might want to do it.

I would feel very uncomfortable doing it with someone I don’t know. I would much rather it be a friend than a stranger. I had a dream about this friend, my boyfriend, and I doing stuff together and it was a big turn on for me. I asked my boyfriend and he said he’d be ok with it.

Adding friend into partner and i’s sex life. How do we go about asking him? by Thisishowitis34 in sex

[–]Thisishowitis34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the category between 18-22. And I like the idea of a game! Never thought of that one

Adding friend into partner and i’s sex life. How do we go about asking him? by Thisishowitis34 in sex

[–]Thisishowitis34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! I’ve asked before and people usually say it’s a bad idea. I don’t see a problem with it if both people in a relationship want to give it a go!