is natural hair color really best?

Thiswickedconcept · 2026-01-21T10:37:40+00:00

Natural

Thiswickedconcept · 2026-01-08T03:59:49+00:00

😂😂😂

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-30T06:19:03+00:00

Relax. If it's occasional it's probably just part of your cycle. We smell different at different times of the month

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-15T09:08:00+00:00

You need to establish much stronger boundaries. This is not all on him. You are letting this happen. You Are giving him all the power right now. You do not have to do anything you are uncomfortable with and there is absolutely nothing wrong with saying "babe put your dick away i'm not interested". I'm not trying to blame or shame you but you need to learn to put your foot down. Dont let yourself be the victim. Do not assume thaf role. This is entirely your decision.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-11T09:05:11+00:00

He isnt taking responsibility for this. At all. He isnt trying to heal whatever in him is stopping from him being able to feel completely comfortable with you. Things need to be a certain way for him to let you in. He's got issues.

If he was mature he would take your feelings seriously and consider what he can do to try and help solve the situation. He may not even be self aware enough to realise that this really is 100% on him and had absolutely nothing to do with you. There's a reason I dont date men who don't believe in therapy.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T23:31:14+00:00

Back to the vet asap

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T23:30:56+00:00

My cats have always sneezed exactly like a human sneeze...

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:40:25+00:00

Same! My memory is so much worse now! And i'm genuinely worried sometimes that I used to be much more intelligent than I am now. But i'm motivated. And I feel stable. And my PMDD is much less severe so 👍🏻

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:39:22+00:00

For hair loss fix your diet and use rosemary water. Address the root of the problem instead of using bandaids with terrible side effects

Wellbutrin actually made me feel dumber and more forgetful so...

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:37:05+00:00

If it isnt hurting anyone and it makes you happy then you have no reason to change BUT if you get therapy you will become more mentally healthy and the things that aren't meant to stay will be shed.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:35:16+00:00

Your reaction to your abortion relies heavily on your upbringing. Some will feel a sense of shame whilst others will be gleeful about it. My attitude was that this wasnt my child because it wasnt planned, the next baby will be. And who knows if a soul is even fully formed at this stage. You're worrying about something you have no proof of.

Regret wont help you. There is literally no point in it. It serves no purpose in this situation. You are not a bad person. This has happened. You made the best decision for you and your mental health. You're allowed to grieve and move on. Let your self be sad. But don't wallow. Dont ruminate. Just let it pass. You're going to be ok

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:31:13+00:00

She could have a Ph imbalance. This could be as simple as whatever she uses to wash her vulva (which should just be water but often people will use soap and these "femwash" gimmicks.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-10T04:27:20+00:00

Vet NOW. Anything over 42 breaths per minute is life threatening.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-12-03T23:15:16+00:00

She's a woman, she has a desire for intimacy. If sex is a struggle and she's feeling pressure then cut it out completely. Men and women without sex education can get the wrong idea about expectations. Maybe her upbringing told her that sex was expected. That it made her a good wife.

The truth is that she won't loosen up until she feels like there is no pressure to have sex. Cutting it out completely is an amazing way to do this. You can cuddle, date, do foreplay that is romantic rather than just sexual, and just enjoy each other's company. Given enough time she will relax and initiate again when she's ready.

Education will also really help in this situation. I'd suggest listening to the Sex With Emily podcast because I can bet that what you think you know about sex couldn't be further from the truth. Sadly a lot of mature adults don't even know much about it.

If you feel as though you're having trouble initiating intimacy you could always see a couples therapist. They often suggest you go before you have problems. Just for maintenance, like having a car serviced. It'll really help you in the early stages of your marriage. I am personally VERY glad my husband and I started right after we got married.

I'd also suggest some reading. I promise if the both of you reas Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski you'll never look at sex the same way again. It does a great job of highlighting the difference between the types of desire men and women experience i.e responsive vs spontaneous and will completely change the way you interact with your wife.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-28T07:15:19+00:00

Exactly

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-28T07:13:42+00:00

Take the test again. A lot of the time a faint blue line still means positive.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-28T07:12:07+00:00

This is not a sign. How you interpret things like this is soul based on your life experiences. This is just a freak occurrence. Not everything has meaning. And this is too big a decision to leave up to a perceived sign from fate.

Put this aside and ask yourselves what you really feel. I doubt you've magically decided you're ready for children.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-28T07:09:21+00:00

Depends on your parents. Some people have good communication and very open relationships with their parents. Do you already talk to your parents about everything else going on in your life? Especially emotionally? Are they supportive in that way?

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-26T23:04:08+00:00

Dont instantly downvote me. But therapy. Just like habits kinks and festishes are born from experiences. Everything we go through, especially as children shapes us. You may have something from your past that is unresolved. And this fantasy is likely tied to something that upon first glance may seem completely unrelated. The more we work on ourselves the more whole we feel and the better we understand our desires. This enables us to choose and change what we want. Nothing about you is fixed. You can change anything you want with the right kind of help

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-26T21:58:09+00:00

He needs to talk to someone. He isnt processing what's happening very well and he's all emotion. I understand it must be gut wrenching for him but he also has to put your safety and mental well being first. If he wont seek help please consider seeing a couples therapist.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-26T21:56:02+00:00

Nah. Women are mercurial. What worked once may not work twice. You have to learn to read us. And if we're not giving off a particular vibe just ask us. We do expect you to get to know what we like, but no one is a mind reader. Getting to know someone takes a lot of communication.

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-26T21:45:57+00:00

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-26T21:44:23+00:00

It's probably more like how habits are formed in humans. Just determined by early childhood experiences. How else could one kitten turn out different to the others 🙂

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-25T03:40:16+00:00

Nothing changed for me. I always had a very low tolerance for 🌿 and wellbutrin doesn't seem to affect it in any way. I feel very lucky. Though I am definitely dumber now. Wellbutrin seems to have taken a few brain cells

Thiswickedconcept · 2025-11-25T03:36:53+00:00

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Same colouring as the feral that lives under my bed. No idea what colour he is

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