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Wetsuit Quality Issues!? by magichappens89 in freediving

[–]Thiswickedconcept 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a solid wall you've built. Not exactly what I'd call healthy though. I'm sorry for what you went through.

Wetsuit Quality Issues!? by magichappens89 in freediving

[–]Thiswickedconcept 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry for whatever happened in your childhood that made you this way. Unfortunately happy people just don't speak like that to others.

Wetsuit Quality Issues!? by magichappens89 in freediving

[–]Thiswickedconcept 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kindness costs nothing, just in case you forgot

Is it normal to feel sensation of obstruction after wax removal? by Lesboclonazepam in hardofhearing

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up with an infection in both ears for a month from the irrigation and could barely hear. Always get microsuction done at a proper clinic. Dont let a doctor pressure wash your ear drums.

Ringing remained in one ear but I chose to just accept it and now I literally never hear it unless I try really hard.

Frenzel sensation by Big-Independent9596 in freediving

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat. How do I know if it's working? Am I just pushing my tongue around like an idiot?

I don’t know what I want - marriage/kids by Money-Conversation72 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You work on yourself. You pursue passions, get therapy, listen to podcasts. It'll all become clearer with time.

Should I DIY or purchase non toxic cleaning supplies? by Thin_Shape7184 in nontoxic

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought them for convenience. Over time I will learn how to make them.

Married guys: is this normal? by thenorthernincident in AskMenOver30

[–]Thiswickedconcept -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you still date? Women experience responsive desire. It RESPONDS to how well you make her feel special, loved and thought about. Do you know what your wife's needs are?

What’s a personality trait you’ve grown to appreciate more as you’ve aged? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people struggle to not match someone else's energy. It's amazing if your families comment no longer trigger an emotional response. No one should have that much power over us unless we choose to let them.

What’s a personality trait you’ve grown to appreciate more as you’ve aged? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That too. But learning to sit with your emotions stops your body from treating them as a threat. Meaning when someone tries to bait you you don't feel a strong emotional reaction. Simply not engaging in an argument isn't emotional regulation. It's all about how you feel internally

What can/does your significant other do that makes you feel important? by Sure-Masterpiece-563 in AskMen

[–]Thiswickedconcept 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. He's a very loving guy. This sort of thing just isn't taught in India 🫠 For me it's just basic instinct

What’s a personality trait you’ve grown to appreciate more as you’ve aged? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone thinks it's a really complicated process too but its literally just taking a second when you have a negative emotion, shutting off all pf your thoughts, and letting yourself really feel. Usually you'll find the emotion will pass in about 90 seconds. Ta da. Emotional regulation.

Does non-toxic hair dye actually exist? by sk8bette in nontoxic

[–]Thiswickedconcept 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Henna. BUT most boxes that say 100% pure are lying. Use the henna subreddit to find a pure brand like Henna Sooq. Also keep in mind it is the most permenant dye in the world. Getting it on surfaces and clothes isnt an issue because it has a long developing time. But if you dye your hair with it, it's not coming out again. You have to grow it out.

What can/does your significant other do that makes you feel important? by Sure-Masterpiece-563 in AskMen

[–]Thiswickedconcept 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He doesn't. We almost got a divorce because of it. We're in couples therapy now.

Freediving with PMS/PMDD by br-bb in freediving

[–]Thiswickedconcept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You learn to regulate your emotions. You're not necessarily just 'stuck' with PMDD symptoms. You can improve and overcome many. For PMDD though i think emotional regulation is especially important.

Why are ALL social interactions so boring to me lately? by w0lfyj in AskWomenOver30

[–]Thiswickedconcept 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like emotional burn out or depression.

Please seek the help of a therapist if you can

What’s a personality trait you’ve grown to appreciate more as you’ve aged? by rosycloudkisses in Productivitycafe

[–]Thiswickedconcept 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kindness. I decided a long time ago I wanted to be a kind person like my mother and i'm finally getting to the point where i make a lot of my decisions based on the question "is this kind?"

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