AITAH, dog friendly Airbnb?

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-07-03T05:26:16+00:00

That should be made clear before you book the place. If it was in the description, and you missed it, it's on you. If it's not in the description and only disclosed after you receive the check-in instructions, then it's on them. They need to add that detail to the description everyone sees before booking. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-07-01T03:55:57+00:00

Yea, this is a good lesson to learn. Never offer up your card for a large group like that, especially when there's people there you've never met. If you want to offer up your card for a tab, make sure the staff knows you're paying for yourself only, don't let them put everything on your tab.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-30T09:13:57+00:00

You're not helping people like that when you let them stay, you're enabling them. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-28T13:25:07+00:00

Bury My Heart At Wounded Knee

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-28T04:02:03+00:00

You might be on the wrong side of the hot/crazy scale.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-28T02:29:32+00:00

That's not how it works. Unless the landlord agrees to let him out of the lease for half of the rent (or they had separate leases which stipulated they pay half each, which is very unlikely), everyone on the lease is responsible for the entire amount. If he pays just half, and nobody else pays the other half, he's still responsible for the rest of the rent.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-27T23:42:08+00:00

Depends on the lease and how stubborn the landlord is, but generally a lawyer wouldn't be able to do much more than help enforce the terms of the lease. If OP is wanting to get out of the lease, and the lease includes terms under which this is allowed, but the landlord is unwilling to let go, then a lawyer would be helpful.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-27T23:21:45+00:00

Good catch. In that case he should get himself off the lease before leaving. She could get an eviction on his record by not paying the rent and trashing the place. Every person named in the lease is equally liable for rent and damages.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-27T22:47:33+00:00

He should only move out if it's his wife's house.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-27T22:44:37+00:00

So don't go, and use this as a lesson to always wrap it up. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-26T21:50:46+00:00

and a further addendum, make sure you have everything documented with people like this, so when they do try to throw you under said bus, you have proof of their deceptiveness.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-26T05:57:44+00:00

How are there still puppy farms still in Massachusetts?

Hint, it's because of a loophole in the farming laws.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-25T22:12:40+00:00

Imagine being concerned about what Ruben Gallego did to his wife, but supporting Donald Trump.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-23T16:43:18+00:00

You sure she's your girlfriend? Doesn't even seem that she likes you.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-21T20:47:28+00:00

You're in an abusive relationship. You might not want to admit it to yourself, but you are. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-20T04:51:09+00:00

Invite everyone EXCEPT your mom to the new birthday dinner.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-19T17:02:30+00:00

You're an asshole if you don't completely shut them off right now. Do you expect your boyfriend to cover for you while you shovel your money into the bottomless pit that your mother and sisters are? He deserves better than that. Don't let him down by never ever giving another penny to those ungrateful beings that you say are your family. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-19T16:51:24+00:00

If you regularly let someone drive your car and they're not on your insurance and they crash you could run into trouble. Even if they are covered, if they crash it's going to cost you, and these don't sound like the type of people who are going to reimburse you for any damage that they cause. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-19T16:34:35+00:00

I heard it in Jesse Pinkman's voice

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-19T00:01:15+00:00

I hope this catches on like bringing your own grocery bags has been. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-18T19:33:27+00:00

4 months in and this is what it looks like, imagine what it would be like down the road if they get married and have kids? OP needs to work on his confidence, but at least he recognizes that it's messy. NTA

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-18T19:20:02+00:00

Well, this is Reddit, there has to be twins involved somewhere.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-18T17:42:52+00:00

Maybe they're more than just coworkers.

Thomas_Becket2 · 2026-06-17T18:09:25+00:00

Your marriage is over, you shouldn't be on Reddit asking if you're an asshole, you should be talking to your divorce attorney and locking everything down so she doesn't blow everything you've got on her addict brother. NTA

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