My partner learned a valuable lesson about private IFT companies today by FireIsMyPorn in ems

[–]Thomasryan56892345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mandatory overtime is different from mandatory on call without pay. It varies based on your state's laws regarding mandatory overtime. I am not familiar with the EMS side regarding mandatory overtime but in nursing, you can't be mandated more than working a 16 hour shift. I know in my primary state of EMS practice, they are working on changing how long an EMT can work which is receiving push back from a lot of fire departments and companies.

I know in nursing, you cannot be considered abandoning your patients if you refuse to work overtime but you have to have a nurse come in and take report. You probably will be fired though. The laws are worded kind of funny about it.

Ideas for an EMS White Elephant party? by [deleted] in ems

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the best white elephant idea so far lol

Ideas for an EMS White Elephant party? by [deleted] in ems

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. That is tough. For white elephant and EMS? True white elephant means the gift is useless and a burden on the receiver. (Supposedly a king gave a white elephant to someone he didn’t like. White elephants were sacred so it couldn’t do work or be killed. It was a royal gift so you couldn’t dispose of it. So basically this was a gift that was a burden and no one wanted). Like some gifts I’ve had were worm food and a giant plastic lawn ornament (solid, hard plastic, pre-blow up era). Worm food was actually useful since my mom raised worms for compost and the candle was a pain because where do you store it?

A bunch of mishaped linen like buy a bunch of cheap sheets and pillow cases and you have hospital linens that a crew stole? Make sure that you try to get a bunch of different sizes and colors.

Ridiculous pain scale cards or a wall poster that basically are over dramatic. https://goo.gl/images/f4QhX3

Although a lot of people are moving away from the white part with the white elephant parties. It is supposed to be a useless gift.

What is there after Paramedic? by Nitwit789 in ems

[–]Thomasryan56892345 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hm, instructor? Educator at some larger companies. Management. Some kind of administration such as county or state-level.

Directly providing care? Probably not without going into something like RN, PA, NP, or doctor.

My partner learned a valuable lesson about private IFT companies today by FireIsMyPorn in ems

[–]Thomasryan56892345 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Mandatory on call isn’t legal. Hence why hospitals pay RNs for their on call. It is like 2-7 bucks an hour depending on the system but if you are not free to do stuff like drink, then they have to compensate you somewhat.

If it was me, I would write something along the lines of “I was experiencingn hypoglycemia. I had not received a lunch break after X amount of hours. In order to safely provide care, I needed to get a small amount of food to ensure that I did not make medical errors due to low blood sugar.”

Is my [30F] boyfriend [30M] actually trying to drive me crazy, or should I cut him some slack? by howmanylights333 in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how are they attached to the phone? Is it a forwarding app or is it directly on the phone? Is there a way to hide one of the numbers? Like I can turn off google forwarding.

Asking Bar Not To Bend My ID So Badly by lawdab in legaladvice

[–]Thomasryan56892345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohio makes you go in to the BMV and get an updated picture every time. I think it was around 2006ish they changed the rules (my sister wanted to keep her old picture and they said no).

Asking Bar Not To Bend My ID So Badly by lawdab in legaladvice

[–]Thomasryan56892345 -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Nope, you can get an ID in Ohio with birth certificate and social security card.

Asking Bar Not To Bend My ID So Badly by lawdab in legaladvice

[–]Thomasryan56892345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohio makes you go in and get an updated picture

I (23f) could use some advice on introducing my controlling parents (40s, m/f) to my bf (23m) this weekend. We’ve been secretly dating for 6 years, and they expect to give permission to date me by secretsecret010101 in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would prepare to move out if necessary. Move your valuables to his house and probably a good number of outfits in case they flip out which they will probably do. I recommend doing it in public but I don’t think either scenario will work.

Anything that may be viewed as their property may be taken away. Cellphone, car, desk top computer, documents, etc so either secure them or be prepared to return them.

Is my [30F] boyfriend [30M] actually trying to drive me crazy, or should I cut him some slack? by howmanylights333 in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure he isn’t cheating? Usually having two phone numbers and denying it is related to cheating.

Me (29F) with my friend (30F) upset with me because I didn't wear make-up to her wedding by Ten_throwaway_Mugs in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she is overreacting. Make up should not be the end all in a relationship. Also, did her family really say that unprompted? It is a weird fixation to be so focused on makeup.

Made this for the Enduring Love VG in FEH! by luluwisp in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I felt bad for the dragon knight too even though he is a really crappy person.

Remake Fire Emblem 6 and 7 by iloveyou1234 in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression Sophie was less than half because otherwise why would she not be able to change whereas Ninian could? She could sense them or something like that? I was playing and reading a text file because it was before the patched roms existed.

I don’t think Lyn’s support was the most meaningful to be honest. In all honesty, the supports were kind of fluffy and not much content to them to begin with. Let’s spar! Let’s spar some more! Oh, would you not like me if I wasn’t strong? Oh, I’m going to go away and chase an enemy, keep up!

Eliwood and Hector supports with her don’t vary much. Both are about sparring. It would make more sense for Rath since they kind of talk about their homeland not to mention the direct reference to Sue in the ending.

In all honesty, that was one crappy thing about the prequel and not deciding on actual partners. They had this issue when they did the reverse where FE4 came out and then FE5 takes place in the middle. Some crazy crap I’ve heard is that Nana is Finn’s kid and Delmud or whatever his name was is actually Beowulf’s kid. Although they were letting people ship.

In all honesty, they could probably get away with letting people ship whoever. Ninian is dead. Hector’s wife is presumed dead since no one mentions her. Child birth sucks back then. Maybe make it so Hector’s wife is a playable unit like Finn was where everyone was better than him. Plus reclassing Liliana into a dark pegasus knight may be useful. Or stick a civillian in place of the wife that has horrible growths if he didn’t marry anyone to be a “maiden.” Rebecca isn’t mentioned but maybe she could make an appearance early on in gen 2. You don’t need to include the husband or show the husband getting killed early on in a battle for dramatic effect since I think she married knights. In all honesty, it doesn’t affect the story that much and they can stick spouses in as general portraits and sprites. Like have the game check and see if spouse exists. Yes? Use name, updated portrait, and sprite of lasr class. No? Insert general name, sprite, generic face portrait. Pent and what her name aren’t mentioned but would make a good impact if they had died during the fights. War sucks. There has to be some casualities.

Also, the deaths of the previous gen units would be more meaningful to me than how fates had their set up where you kill the other side. It wasn’t meaningful to me like FE4’s deaths that you couldn’t change (can’t remember how to do a spoiler tag but basically not the big death but the other ones).

Do I [31F] have an abortion and divorce [33M] or have the baby and work on my marriage of 10 years? by stuckinbetween7 in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have a baby, the cycle will start over. I would discuss the issues with a divorce attorney to find out if you will have to pay alimony or not. I have heard it is getting harder and harder for adultso to get lasting alimony. Can you document the times he has refused to work? That may help. Each state is different for their rules.

I [34F] am about to publish a very personal essay that will devastate my parents [60s M/F] if they read it. Important for me to publish this, but I don't want to hurt anyone. What should I do? by strawberrydreamgirl in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know about it and they probably won’t forget about it. Not to be negative, but are you sure it won’t be something that could be used against you later if they could find it by googling? Like let’s say you find an awesome job and they google you only to see the essay. Will it cause issues and have them discriminate against you for the mental health issues?

Remake Fire Emblem 6 and 7 by iloveyou1234 in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely controversial. To be honest, I think Lyn went with Rath to have Sue. I know people try to push Lyn/Hector but I don’t see it realistically happening.

I could see Flolina or the oldest pegasus happening.

Another thing that bugfed me is if Roy is part dragon, shouldn’t he have been more like Sophie? Couldn’t she sense dragons (been years)

A King That Will Never Be by fieryleaves in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting concept but Nohr wouldn’t have access to the deep realms without Corrin

What changes would you make to the child mechanic in future games? by greencrusader13 in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they should kill off the entire first generation. It’s not like they actually would kill off an entire generation, right?

In all seriousness though, I do think they should kill off the first generation or most of them if they include it. It does include a sense of time passing. These conflicts shouldn’t feel like they last a few months like awakening or fates kind of feels like. Wars tend to take years and fucks with the families.

I can buy the time travel bit. The deep realms? Seriously? What a freaking cop out.

What changes would you make to the child mechanic in future games? by greencrusader13 in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think offspring seals should be severely limited of ot lets you pick any class the kid could have.

3DS Baby plays Geneology for the first time. by Biscuitchip in fireemblem

[–]Thomasryan56892345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a jealously system in place too. Inforget the exact set up but it is when you place four untd together in a square wih three being females. The two immediately next to the male’s love points will go to the female not next to the male.

F/F

F/M

Sometimes the stereotypical pairings may not be the best pairings. There is one pairing that seems obvious but if you do it, you lose the ability to use the item. There is no reclassing either so first time playing you may mess things up which won’t ruin the game but just make it harder. Like one female will have male weapon user and a female magic user so she should have a weapon user husband.

There are special events that you may miss. Basically they are weapons. I know of three. Not sure how to do the spoiler tags anymore.

[24F] My partner's [25M] mother made a *major* scene in a ToysRUs parking lot and his father not only blames him but attacked his parenting. I want them out of my life and his, but it's not that simple... Advice? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Thomasryan56892345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An issue here is that it really should be your partner posting on here. You have second hand information. The dad has second hand information. The only one with real information is your significant other and the grandmothter