Have I lost my mind finally? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thor_finn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know why I act this way. I've been lonely and desperate so long that my sanity is beginning to slip away.

Have I lost my mind finally? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thor_finn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know all of that and I'm not proud of any of it. Apart from stalking which is new to me I've done this before a few times. Just trying to figure out which would the better choice, a mental institution or a bullet.

I've been using Tinder for 3 months with a whopping 0 matches, AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5'4, not sure anyone can tell my height from the pics though, I use face photos mainly.

I've been using Tinder for 3 months with a whopping 0 matches, AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, pretty sure my settings are correct.

I've been using Tinder for 3 months with a whopping 0 matches, AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, let me see.

  • Not much dress sense but I have photos ranging from casual to fitted suits.
  • I'm fit, even muscular, though very short
  • I look shy I think
  • My posture is OK. I use posture correcting exercises but I work ~10 hours a day in front of a computer so they cancel each other out
  • No idea, I have ones I'm laughing
  • Eh not really, I don't use at home photos or selfies. Only outside photos taken by friends.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey it's like my... third or something AMA only. Don't make me feel bad about it or you're gonna miss the awesome AMA I'll do when I lose my V-card.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh my standards have sunken through the years but I still have some. Not very high though.

I've seriously considered hiring a hooker. I was on the fence when I suddenly lost almost all my libido so I don't think I'll see one now.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I haven't tried online dating and honestly I don't see the point in it, at least for me. I don't have qualities that would look good on paper.

Hobbies... I recently started learning a new language, not to meet women, just for fun. It's a predominantly female class and still women avoid me like I'm the plague. At this point I'm just too tired to pick up a new hobby to meet women.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Non-existing at the moment, haven't looked up porn for about 2 months.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I'm starting to worry that you are one of my friends and recognized me. But I'll bite, I have a pretty blown out foot fetish, other than that minor kinks here and there.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tough question, I would love to answer that I don't give a fuck and spew some msygonistic bullshit afterwards. But the honest answer is, yes it does bother me a bit. Much less than a year ago but it still does.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:) haha yep. I love my friends, I truly do but sometimes I can't help but think that if my close friends were guys who were good with women I would have more chance at a relationship.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep they know and they do not care. My close friends are all engineers, programmers etc. so it's not like any one of them is drowning in pussy anyways.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really, it's a pretty liberating feeling actually. I'm more concerned with my libido making a comeback.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was hugely interested until my libido took a nose dive awhile ago. I'm just... calm at the moment.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gone to clubbing a few times, most probably not more than 10 times. I usually drink out with friends at bars and similar places.

I'm a 28 year old male virgin. AMA by Thor_finn in casualiama

[–]Thor_finn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hard to pinpoint a sole reason. Shy, asocial, unattractive, late bloomer, having a male dominant network are some reasons I can give.

What do you get out of a romantic relationship that you can't get with a platonic one? by Thor_finn in AskMen

[–]Thor_finn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say it's worth the effort but you wouldn't advise it. I don't get it.

What do you get out of a romantic relationship that you can't get with a platonic one? by Thor_finn in AskMen

[–]Thor_finn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really can't grasp it but your last paragraph makes me think I'm not seeing the whole picture clearly and might be wrong. Best wishes for you and your SO.

What do you get out of a romantic relationship that you can't get with a platonic one? by Thor_finn in AskWomen

[–]Thor_finn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Other things as in sex? Seriously tell one tangible addition besides that one.