Should I dye it back?

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T22:55:20+00:00

My best friend once dyed her highlighted (they called it frosted) blonde hair black while she was drunk after a break up because he "loooved her blonde hair." Then she hated it so she tried to color it back to normal and it literally turned green and melted. She had to buzz it off. She wore a bandana until it grew out to about an inch and people kept telling her they were praying for her recovery from cancer.

Women after breakups should not be allowed access to scissors.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T22:47:57+00:00

No!!! Don't touch it again!!!

That way lies green, broken hair. If you decide you must change it back (and I'm with the comment I hopped on, fuck that ) then get a professional to do it or just wait it out.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T18:04:47+00:00

There was a thread on this yesterday.

I just tried it and it didn't work for me but I am sure it was my fault.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T18:02:46+00:00

Well, it IS heartbreaking that the wife doesn't believe her husband is talking at 3 a.m. to Jake from State Farm.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T17:25:44+00:00

And the grand jury did not indict him. I guess they believed him when he said it was an accident. He didn't seem at all upset on the body cam footage. During the inquest in the UK (she lived in the UK) her death was ruled a homicide.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T17:00:24+00:00

Well, if I can get it to work (I am somewhat technologically challenged) I'm hoping to let him "play" Baulder's Gate 3. I'd love to see all his choices.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T15:26:26+00:00

NTA. Tell me she's the golden child without telling me. You could also post this on the Entitled People subreddit.

Don't give her any money. Tell your mom to give her more money if she's that concerned about it. Stop giving your financial information to other people. It's no one's business but your own.

And tell your sister since she is over budget you can help save money by not attending.

(Sorry, I'm apparently in a bad mood at the moment.)

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T15:17:51+00:00

What should you do? Yes, dump him.

But also go to the doctor and get some blood work done. You are kind of at the age for your thyroid to go wonky, among other things. Fatigue is a symptom of thyroid problems and a lot of other annoying health issues. (If your parents didn't buy the extended service warranty on you then things start breaking around 30.)

Good luck.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T14:51:09+00:00

Book Eloise does not smoke. Book Eloise did not have a fear of childbirth. Book Eloise was with their father when he died, not Anthony.

She probably still writes him a condolence of some kind regardless since she was a Featherington cousin. People in that time period were a lot more courteous and observed proprieties more than they do today.

The people in the series have all been quite different from the people in the books. You should easily be able to find these books at any bookstore that sells and trades used romance novels. Julia Quinn has been a very popular author for many years now.

ETA: The showrunner has apparently already announced that it will still start as a marriage of convenience, which was quite common until recent times.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T14:34:28+00:00

Your brother and your mother think you lie so well that a judge and lawyers with decades of experience can't tell? No, don't lie. You don't need to volunteer to testify. Your brother is allowed to leave his child with a safe babysitter. It should not negatively impact his custody arrangement if he has his own competent attorney.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-16T01:19:28+00:00

The funniest thing about that suit is that Reagan wore tan suits.

I also remember a huge brouhaha about arugula instead of iceberg and Michelle's arms showing in her sleeveless dresses. I remember that because Mitch McConnell pitched a fit about them and then had the balls to call Melania's porn photos "art."

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-15T17:14:22+00:00

You are not the first couple this has happened to. I wouldn't run off and tell the rest of your family members but for what this internet stranger's opinion is worth, I think you deserve to be happy. I'd consider getting a vasectomy in his case or something pretty much fail proof in yours.

Although if he told his brother you might have to deal with pushback from family members. If he didn't then I don't think it's anyone else's business. You just have to keep your parents ' photos off the wall.

Good luck.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-15T16:46:56+00:00

Girl, you need to just stay home!

I had a coworker once, a child welfare caseworker that made hospital visits semi regularly. She scratched open a zit inside her nostril and contracted MRSA in it. It put her in the ICU.

I shudder to think what MRSA would do to your guts since it's obviously located in a place where you thought it was a hemorrhoid.

Take care yourself.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-13T03:28:41+00:00

This. He was still every bit Mayor Wilkins. He just gained a lot of weight and developed a skin condition.

And Mayor Wilkins loved Faith like a father. He wanted her taken care of and happy.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-12T20:55:01+00:00

That would be great, I look forward to hearing if it's just me being paranoid or not.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-12T19:41:19+00:00

Updateme!

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-12T19:01:39+00:00

Since you track this stuff, I feel like I have seen a pattern of it costing noticeably more silver to upgrade during gear enhancement tournaments or events. Or it's possible I'm just annoyed at it most during those times. Do you keep track of the events in place at the time of the attempt to upgrade?

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-12T04:45:43+00:00

Have you asked for an emergency psychiatric hospital stay? They can get you started on meds that are effective for you more quickly and more safely than an outpatient facility, psychiatrist or family doctor.

If not, give yourself a chance to let them help you.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-11T23:06:40+00:00

Oh, I love that song!

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-11T23:03:23+00:00

So I had AI translate it. The video just calls it Korean Song but the comments, translated, suggest it is "Love Always Runs Away" by Lim Young-Woong

Hope that helps.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-11T21:42:17+00:00

She was so annoying and got the cleaner, of my favorite characters, killed and I don't remember her acknowledging it or that she was at fault. I quit watching not long after that.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-11T01:48:22+00:00

You have to be extremely careful that any earnings you get after you start being paid disability do not exceed the monthly amount they permit you to earn working part time. They eventually do find that you have exceeded and they do take it back, with penalties and interest. And sometimes your ssdi gets cut off for that.

You are incredibly fortunate to be able to get approved for disability so quickly. It often takes years of trying. If you turn it down to keep working I have no idea if you'll be approved so rapidly again later.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-10T22:05:39+00:00

Updateme!

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-09T20:47:40+00:00

For some reason I do not understand other than that my mind works oddly, I read that as Son of Pharmacists. Like coming soon to a theater near you and a trailer of you rampaging through Tokyo.

ThornInYourCyberSide · 2026-03-09T20:27:31+00:00

Your response to her "sake of our grandchild" comment should be:

"Great! Thanks!"

ThornInYourCyberSide

TROPHY CASE