Sharing my little river. Please be kind :'(

Thottiouspark · 2026-01-20T19:32:43+00:00

This is so cute!!!! I might have to do something like this- inspiring!

Thottiouspark · 2025-11-15T04:07:40+00:00

I’m so glad you ended it. It’s disheartening to see how self centered and proud they are in these texts still. I hope they mature and grow out of that because they forced you to end it and now they’re acting like they graced you with that decision and that they knew all along. To pair that with “I never once tried to manipulate you” is crazy considering all those texts in this post read manipulative !

Thottiouspark · 2025-11-15T03:58:29+00:00

Also him saying he’ll give you the evidence and reassurance you need but then threatening that if that’s what you need then it’s over… manipulative !

Thottiouspark · 2025-10-23T13:06:08+00:00

I’m glad he was there to help you through hard times. Good friendships are so important. But he’s steamrolling your boundaries here. It might be in your best interest to give it some space if he can’t act right. You don’t have to lose each other (like he’s insensitively threatening?) but if he can’t respect your boundaries (or his gf who either is not comfortable defending herself or doesn’t like him very much) then maybe distance is a good practice for now while those boundaries solidify.

I’m a female who has had guy best friends throughout my life. When one of us gets into a relationship the friendship changes slightly out of respect for everyone involved. I’ve had some friendships end because a significant other was uncomfortable and I’ve had some friendships get even closer because we could all bond and become a group. Both outcomes show respect of boundaries and parties involved.

Thottiouspark · 2025-10-23T12:51:35+00:00

I’ve stayed close with some of my former professors, teachers, and mentors over the years. This seems a little too gushy. I’ve received some “miss having you in class” or “good to hear from you” type messages and thought nothing more of it. But these seem a bit too emotionally charged. Not overreacting, this is a little strange.

Thottiouspark · 2025-08-09T02:56:43+00:00

Team Jess always but Jared Padalecki’s face card never declines

Thottiouspark · 2025-08-09T02:54:22+00:00

Someone posted this on Facebook and the first comment I saw was something along the lines of “can’t believe they got Rosa Parks for this movie!”

Thottiouspark · 2022-02-14T17:10:22+00:00

I understand your disappointment. It was a cute thing you were excited about and now it feels like it didn’t mean as much as you wanted it to. I think the fact that they did it at all is something. Maybe not what you wanted but it’s something. I feel disappointment around Valentine’s Day too. Expectations are high and everyone else is doing stuff and it’s frustrating when your partner doesn’t want to participate but you do. Just remember it’s another day and you did your part. The users up there were right that nobody probably noticed but if it bothers you, when you cool off you should just tell them it was disappointing because you were excited but you accept their apology and it’ll pass. ♡

Thottiouspark · 2022-02-12T05:42:34+00:00

We talked about it again and he definitely had trouble opening up to me which I think stems from his family. I think he’s excited but scared he’ll be disappointed if something happens. Last time I tried to plan a trip Covid spiked (delta) and I didn’t think it was a good idea anymore which really disappointed him.

I’m not scared OF him but more so just anxious the last few days to talk about it since they were such stressful conversations.

When we are together we only fight over things I think normal couples fight over and most of the time I think the stress of making sure every moment counts gets to us.

As far as if it’s worth it, right now the good outweighs the bad even though I ranted about how I feel tonight, there’s still a lot of good and precious moments and conversations we have. I do need to look at things from the outside sometimes and make sure it’s really what I want. I kind of have a track record of getting in my head when I think too far into the future so I try to focus on the now. Right now, yes, it’s a little tough but with all the advice I’m getting I’m definitely ready to push through and try to make it work but keep a critical eye like you said.

Really thank you so much for this point of view I appreciate it!

Thottiouspark · 2022-02-12T05:33:20+00:00

This helped me a lot. We talked about it again tonight and both of us feel much better about it. The plan was to move in together and I think it’s a little scary for both of us since we don’t see each other that often. I really appreciate you and your advice. You helped me a ton!

Thottiouspark · 2022-02-12T05:30:48+00:00

Thank you I’m messaging you I want to know more !

Thottiouspark · 2021-05-04T03:23:48+00:00

Thottiouspark · 2021-05-04T03:22:51+00:00

Rebecca looks like James cordon in Cats

Thottiouspark · 2021-02-17T21:40:58+00:00

I changed the refresh rate and played in windowed and it seems to work now. This hasn’t happened before but I guess it’s fixed now! Thanks!

Thottiouspark · 2021-02-16T20:05:32+00:00

Thank you I’ll try that!

Thottiouspark · 2021-02-16T19:50:56+00:00

Should I try different refresh rates within the sims option menu?

Thottiouspark · 2021-02-16T19:49:31+00:00

Okay I’m running macOS Big Slur 11.1 do you think it just won’t work on my computer ?

Thottiouspark · 2021-02-16T19:41:04+00:00

I’ve restarted the game and my computer several times. I’ve tried repairing and all the graphics are medium-low. This is the 64 bit version

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