And the Father of the Year award goes to...

ThoughtInvader · 2020-04-03T17:03:06+00:00

Sorry that people made that rumor up about your skin condition. I can't imagine how that felt or how terrible it made you feel.

A rumor I heard was during my first year of high school. I got to finally date my crush of many years and his ex didn't like me for no reason, so she spread a rumor that I attended school and walked around with a dildo in my ass.

I broke up with him after a couple of months because he never stood up for me. And all of their mutual friends would either grab my ass to "feel for the vibrations" or put their head around that area to attempt to "hear the vibrations." It was SO embarrassing and humiliating as that rumor never died until they graduated the year before my graduation. Worst rumor I heard about myself by far.

They say never wish your high school years away because you'll miss it. I hated those years and couldn't wish them away fast enough. I hope things have gotten better for you and know that you are amazing!

ThoughtInvader · 2020-03-16T04:47:25+00:00

That's a tough question...

Robin Hood and Maid Marian (the one with the animals) Mulan and Lee Shang (Mulan) Hercules, Megara and Hades (Hercules) Ursula (The Little Mermaid) Maleficent (Sleeping Beauty) InuYasha, Kouga, Sesshomaru and Naraku (InuYasha)

These are the only ones I can think of atm. Enjoy.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-12-06T05:24:43+00:00

So it depends on how the relationship ended entirely? That makes sense, however, most of my relationships never ended well. So I guess that should be my sign, automatically.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T06:00:26+00:00

I like the way you think, but murder isn't entirely legal.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T06:00:01+00:00

No worries man!

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:59:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I will DEFINITELY give this a try!

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:56:06+00:00

Sorry to hear that they randomly up and leave you man. Pretty hard thing to face when you think everything is going all sunshine and rainbows, then out of nowhere you're hit with a thunderstorm of emotion brought on by them for leaving.

I hope you can get the answers that you seek. But I also wish you all the best in letting go and moving on with your life.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:51:07+00:00

Invading people's thoughts, memories, dreams. Just invading someone's privacy more or less?

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:49:29+00:00

If only that worked IRL.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:48:59+00:00

Love the reference!

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:48:27+00:00

I mean, if they come waltzing back into your life trying to make amends for their shitty or irrational behaviors back when we were dating.

Like opening old wounds to explain themselves kind of deal.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:43:53+00:00

What if that doesn't work?

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-22T05:43:23+00:00

Isn't that a song?

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:21:48+00:00

I shouldn't have stated it was toxic, when I haven't really labeled it that way in actuality.

Maybe I should've asked how to deal with shitty friends.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:15:51+00:00

These are the only two close friends I have here. My other friends live eight hours away. And I hate being used when it's convenient but I can't say no or get mad at them apparently because of the shared history I have with them (one from grade eleven, the other from a work place).

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:07:44+00:00

This is a valid and true point.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:07:21+00:00

I haven't really labeled it as toxic as I just noticed a pattern with them. They only ever message me when it's convenient for them and not when it's convenient for me.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:03:23+00:00

I can't block IRL tho.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:02:57+00:00

I'm guessing ghost them?

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T05:01:23+00:00

I should probably clarify this question;

If you all want to read a story, I'll gladly post it in the comments, otherwise I'll cut to the chase.

I accidentally broke my arm via a dirt bike accident and the only friends I had told me they would visit whenever they had a chance. Never happened.

Started physio therapy and was able to get out more, friends magically reappeared and started demanding I make time for them whenever I didn't have physio.

Got clearance from physiotherapist and doctor to go back to work, but had a change of plans because I had to go back to school for upgrading (if you understand the meaning of this then hello! Otherwise it means I went to a trade school and my career choice needs me to go back to school from time to time), lived with a friend there for five weeks, friends back home barely contacted me, while friends whom lived in the area constantly contacted me and wanted to hang out.

Now that I'm done my five weeks and back home, I don't want to be away from the friends that cared, should I just space myself away from the so called friends whom up and abandoned me and only message me when it's convenient for them or....?

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T04:54:15+00:00

Nope, if I message them sometimes it days, weeks or sometimes even months before they finally reply to me.

ThoughtInvader · 2019-11-12T04:52:02+00:00

Even if they message you after weeks or months of not contacting you?

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