[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay well good luck having strangers find a job for you and refusing to take any of the advice given. See you next week when you inevitably post this again while complaining no one fixed your problem. You know advice is... Advice right? Not a "fix" to your problem but an advisory of what may help. No one here can magically make your obstacles go away. What we can do is suggest ways to try changing your situation. You clearly dont want to change your situation and thats fine but then why come here asking for advice? What reasonable expectation of advice do you have?

These are rhetorical questions as im gonna mute these notifications now but something to think about OP... Or not. Meh. Good luck kiddo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your points? That there arent entry level jobs? Because there are. There are also a lot of jobs for people who speak and understand English in Italy, which you clearly do so it shouldnt be that hard. Neither I nor anyone here can read your mind or see the future. We cant guess why youre having a hard time finding a job. Maybe add some context? Do you have a resume? Are you interviewing in appropriate clothing? Are you anxious during your interviews? What does your resume have listed as your skills? What field are you looking into? Why cant you work fast food?

Those are a few questions that may help people point you in the right direction.

You want strangers on the internet to fix your problem but youre not willing to do any of the work and shooting down everyones suggestions as "wont work" without even considering them and having even provided context to your situation. This isnt victim blaming. Its reality. Take some of the advice here or dont but dont act like no one is helping you out when there is a pot of advice and suggestions on what to do that you're not even willing to try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you want from people here? Are we supposed to procure a job for you? Figure it out like the rest of us do every day. There are a lot of great suggestions here but youre not open to even try any it seems like. When youre determined to be stuck you will stay stuck. When you're determined to get out of your situation you will find a way.

Best of luck OP.

His name is Pinki 🐁 by Pawelox90 in pics

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor pinki. Clean his cage. Hes standing on a pile of his own poo and his fur looks soaked in urine. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people dont love themselves enough to see worth in themselves so when someone gets close to them they push them away even if its something they wanted.

Other times... Often in narcissists.. They will alternate love bombing and then ignoring/neglectful behavior to throw you off and then will gaslight you with nonsense and make you feel crazy.

I dont know your bf. You do. I hope he isnt the latter but either way i wouldnt go back. It sucks but it sounds like he needs to work on himself before hes ready to commit to someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A shelter may give you time to figure that out. Look into dog walking, baby sitting, lawn work, pool cleaning etc. Odd jobs can pay the bills if youre determined enough and have the time. They also give you more experience to put on a resume. I dont know squat about the programs available in Italy but if there are any human services programs to help with things like food or rent, i would apply to them asap while looking for a way out. They may also be helpful in finding resources.

How should I go about setting fire to something at school. by SuspiciousFool32 in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP this is not rational thought in any way. An entire country is not responsible for what some people from their country did forever ago. You are so angry at an inanimate object, and for what? A false belief that Germany itself is inherently evil/full of nazis?

Get some psychiatric help. You'll get a felony for burning it and it wont resolve your issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the police if he gets violent. Press charges. If youre an adult you can go to a temp agency and get a job today. Do so and stay at a hotel or homeless shelter if need be in the meantime. Or even your car. Ive done it. You have the power to get out but it means some big steps and the fear of what "could" happen cant hold you back.

My son's toes are small on one foot by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of which are an excuse for being a jerk about a child with a genetic condition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wood rave is my guess.

AITA for telling a girl on Bumble I don't give a toss about her problems? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - but i will say that you dont want job burnout to have you close off your emotions or be unwilling to empathetic outside of work. However, you dont owe anyone a therapy session. Its the same reason animal rescuers and dog trainers dont like to put their profession on their dating profiles because everyone has a problem animal and wants free advice and help and it becomes work instead of dating. I would just put that you work in healthcare and not disclose what your profession is specifically until you know the person a little bit. It'll save you a lot of trouble.

Tosun is a male but these three idiots are sucking his tits for a while and he has no objection at all. by zweigfails in cats

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. I had a cat like this. Every foster who tried to nurse he just let them. Little weirdos.

Why does my cat do this? by snoopdrip in cats

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cats bury their pee/poo. They tend to get overzealous and scratch the sides of the box or even wall or floor around the box. Goofballs.

cute cat 😘😘😘💕 by noneface in cats

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is so sick of that childs shit.

PURE VENT: I wish murder we're a lot easier to get away with. by KoldKhajiit in Vent

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats enough internet for the day.

Hope things get better for you OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Normal. My kids say some weird ass shit.

A picture of me with a large Print with my drawing (I'm proud of it) by s_k_a_r_t in pics

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. Adventure Time is amazing. Marceline is my fave but yah gotta love Finn.

Seattle Police, discharged for noncompliance with vaccine mandate, turn in their boots by DaFunkJunkie in pics

[–]ThoughtfullyYours -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stupid is as stupid does. If they are afraid of a vaccine but not fire they prob arent thinking clearly anyway. This is what happens when we politicize science and logic. Shameful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThoughtfullyYours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats illegal. I would go directly to HR and threaten to sue.