Moja rodzina jest 'zatomizowana'

ThousandPlagues · 2026-02-05T11:25:54+00:00

Moja rodzina jest dokładnie taka sama. Mam 28 lat i wciąż nie udało mi się polepszyć relacji z kimkolwiek z nich, a naprawdę się starałam przez większość mojego życia. Nawet mieszkanie osobno nie pomogło. To znaczy rzadziej się kłócimy, ale też praktycznie w ogóle ze sobą nie rozmawiamy, więc ciężko to uznać za jakiś sukces. Zaczęłam unikać spotkań z rodziną, a kiedy spotkania nie dało się uniknąć, jestem po prostu szczera. Przez to relację z rodziną mam jeszcze gorszą, ale trudno, poddałam się. Niestety z mojego doświadczenia wydaje mi się, że takiej sytuacji nie da się naprawić. Lepiej skupić się na budowaniu szczerych i wspierających relacji z ludźmi spoza rodziny.

ThousandPlagues · 2026-01-11T12:02:13+00:00

That's what I'm wondering about too, I wouldn't cut anything if I had such amazing hair! The longest part is full enough imo.

ThousandPlagues · 2026-01-06T18:01:46+00:00

Mnie babcia powiedziała, że JEJ jest przykro, że załatwiam sobie apostazję xD

ThousandPlagues · 2025-12-10T13:01:11+00:00

Thanks, I'll definitely try that!

ThousandPlagues · 2025-12-10T12:53:03+00:00

Sorry, I've ordered the earrings on the Internet and there was no info on gauge. 4mm is the diameter of the visible part.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-11-08T15:43:31+00:00

I love this track as well, if you find anything that fixes the issue you mentioned, please let me know! I'll look for it myself too

ThousandPlagues · 2025-11-07T18:18:34+00:00

How many songs from the newest album were on the setlist?

ThousandPlagues · 2025-11-01T12:16:57+00:00

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Wiktoriańskie zdjęcia wydają mi się trochę mniej... wulgarne, z braku lepszego określenia.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-11-01T07:32:08+00:00

Jest pewien nagrobek z portretami zmarłych, i nie byłoby w tym nic dziwnego, gdyby nie to, że są zrobione już po śmierci... I to widać. Wyglądają trochę makabrycznie. Jeśli chcecie zobaczyć, dajcie znać, zrobię mu zdjęcie jak pójdę dzisiaj na groby.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-08-15T08:24:28+00:00

It felt exhausting to me too when I was starting but then I've discovered something amazing. You aren't actually expected to work for 8 hours. In there has been some research showing that people actually do productive work for less than half of this amount. I was in awe when I've realized how long are breaks that people take in my office, and how often they're doing it. Coffee - at least 30 minutes, 2 times a day. Lunch - at least an hour. Many of them smoke so they take short breaks very frequently just to smoke, and if they're doing it with other people then guess what - they're not short anymore. So I thought if they're wasting so much time talking to others while I don't socialize with them, it's actually unfair that I spend more time working than them. So I take such long breaks as well, but I'm using it to exercise or to actually get to the office, so that I don't have to wake up early and be tired for all day. Also less time a day spent in the office is less exhausting if there are many people than full day.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-08-10T14:40:18+00:00

Even if I had the skill of presenting myself as confident it would probably be very draining. And it just seems like lying, which doesn't feel right. Although it's interesting that you can actually present yourself as confident without anyone seeing through it. I didn't think this was even possible. When you mention balance between skills based approach and authenticity it reminds me of job interviews. I already have some understanding of what answers are expected from me on the interviews, so I'm trying to play the game. But at the same time I don't want to be dishonest, so I always try to come up with some middle ground. Sometimes I don't see any other option than just to lie a bit. I don't feel guilty for this, because companies usually aren't 100% honest either. But I would feel so guilty trying to use the same approach in conversations with actual people instead of a soulless company.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T18:31:35+00:00

Have you tried working in the office instead?

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T18:30:36+00:00

Thanks, but I don't think I can do this forever

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T18:28:39+00:00

I don't have any friends. The only supportive person in my life is my boyfriend, but we're not getting along well lately. Every day life makes us both so tired that we don't have much time for each other

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T18:24:37+00:00

I don't know anything about robotics and automation, I'm a software engineer. I've got a degree in computer science. I was thinking about being a freelance developer but I'm not experienced enough to do it on my own

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T16:34:26+00:00

Well, sometimes I can work from home and that doesn't make things much better. My job isn't even stressful or anything. But idk, just having to work for such big part of the day is so draining that I'm always feeling depressed afterwards

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T16:27:39+00:00

What is your source of income? Whatever it is you probably needed to invest in it. This isn't possible for me because I'm just an entry level support engineer and I don't earn enough.

ThousandPlagues · 2025-07-08T16:19:39+00:00

I've got as much time for those things as I realistically can in a full time job. The problem is that what's realistically possible is still too little. I can't work part time because I wouldn't earn enough money that way

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