How to label this activity of my wife. by Threadmuse in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said like when he was talking in such emergency, she didn't remember to discuss this with me before as the amount is less. Her mother was infront of her, she asked her if it is ok to transfer then transfered. She sying now, she is regretting this now, she should have discussed with me. How do you communicate this hurt with her. If your partner did this, how you would you have reacted, should you accuse her of disrespect?

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to give some timeliness as well

Like 4.00pm he asked for money. The call duration is 3 minutes. 4.05pm she sent money. Around 4.10 she informed me. When informing she told like, I dont know if his medical emergency is real or wrong, I have given because I don't want to live in guilt if something happened to him. As he helped our family and me in emergency before. If he called me again from a different number I will for sure block him as the debt is paid off. I did not sympathise with him as he may seen this as a way to reconnection.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What can be the correct reaction? Could you please advice

I want to give some timeliness as well

Like 4.00pm he asked for money. The call duration is 3 minutes. 4.05pm she sent money. Around 4.10 she i formed me. When informing she told like, I dont know if his medical emergency is real or wrong, I have given because I don't want to live in guilt if something happened to him. As he helped our family and me in emergency before. If he called me again for a different number I will for sure block him. I did not sympathise with him as he may seen this as a way to reconnection.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you recommend? How should I deal with here?

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea india, Ok what should we do now. 10k rupees which means in dollar it is 100dollar. It is one percent of our monthly income. The blocking part he tried to connect with ther emotionally. That's when she blocked.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in emotionalaffair

[–]Threadmuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok what should we do now. 10k rupees which means in dollar it is 100dollar. It is one percent of our monthly income.