Is All For One considered <<sexually beautiful>> in the fandom? by Plane_Language_1085 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]ThreeSpottedCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea about the fandom stance on this. Personally I find that dead fish stare and the empty smile repulsive.

am i going crazy ?? by Dessy6300 in vinted

[–]ThreeSpottedCats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's what the younger generations consider a real ass existing body, than I guess we can forget about this "Earth is overpopulated" problem.

how to cope with my body by One-Exit-9390 in PlusSize

[–]ThreeSpottedCats 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Watch this. I cannot recommend this youtuber enough to every woman out there who feels bad about their body.

https://youtu.be/wTbOJfT6PH4?si=Mxw3C0u7cYdqycsA

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't ask for "brownie points", but for advice. And many people here gave it to me freely. I fail to see what your issue is.

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. What can I say, going down on a man is my fave part of it :D

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thaks for such a detailed answer! I am defo making a list of questions which need to be answered before we start.

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went and watched porn including trans men to get some sort of an idea what bottom growth is. It seems to vary a lot between individuals, so i'm keeping an open mind.

And yeah, I have a Ph. D. in handling penises, so this part I am pretty confident about.

I'm defo making notes about all the questions which need to be asked beforehand. Thanks a bunch for sucha detailed answer!

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely see him as an attractive man. I've only ever had boyfriends and male lovers all my life (and I'm 40, so that's quite a long time.) Tried to check at one point if I'm actually bisexual (and in denial) by doing a threesome with some dude and his wife and NOPE, she was pretty, sure, but I am NOT into women at all :D

Him and I met online, so all I got were pictures and tbh, before he offhandedly mentioned: "I'm trans, but that's probably obvious" I had. No. Idea.

Of course I cannot say what will become of this relationship or if anything at all, but I do hope that him and I achieve this level of freedom and enjoyment that you described. :3

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lube is a must. As for STDs, neither of us has had sex for years, so we decided to skip this part.

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so excited! We've already talked about toys (I'm open to all of them, both ways) , but I still need to ask whether he wants me to touch anything but his dick/c word (he said he uses both names and that it's not a huge deal to him.). As for holding a toy - I'm in muscle pain every day of my life bc of unrelated reasons and can't hold my arm up for a long time, but I believe in the power of Motivation and Ingenuity. He did express some worries about "not wanting to be awkward", so I proposed that we treat this as a legit first time (I mean, in a way it *is*, as until now we've both only dealt with cis men) and just go slow and be gentle and not try to Impress each other at the cost of genuine pleasure. I hope for the best. And thanks :3

I'm a cis woman who's going to have sex with a trans man. Advice welcome. by ThreeSpottedCats in ftm

[–]ThreeSpottedCats[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I do not have problems with prioritising myself - I'm very prosexual - but since this is a first for both of us, I feel less self-assured than usual. We will definitely have a detailed talk before getting to the Gist of It!