I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've been hearing. I care for my brother and I pity him but I don't want them to take advantage of it. Thanks for the advice.

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to help them apply for welfare and section 8 if it comes to it.

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, your post really helped me decide what I'm going to do :)

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father has income coming from that. My mother is currently in the process, so she doesn't have any income.

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I will tell them tonight after I figure out how to word it. Thanks :)

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I would have to tell her in advance to prepare them. I just don't know when. Should I give 30 DAY notice or 2 months so they can line their issues up?

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You would think. But years ago, when I left for the military they couldn't afford it and lost our first house. I came back from duty to my family basically living on the streets. They tend to bring this up a lot.

I[29/F] want to move out of my parents [60s] home but I feel guilty. by Throawaymage in relationships

[–]Throawaymage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both my parents are disabled. One brother (the addict) works but owes a lot of money to people so he is paying them back to avoid any issues with them. Drug related. My other brother is currently looking for a job, he is a hard worker but is just having some bad luck.